What went wrong? Reese Witherspoon<\/strong><\/a> and her estranged husband, Jim Toth<\/strong><\/a>, had been living \u201cseparate lived\u201d before their split<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cThey live very separate lives and sleep in separate rooms,\u201d a source exclusively revealed in the December 5, 2022, issue of Us Weekly<\/em>, adding that although Witherspoon and Toth\u2019s partnership was \u201cstill very strong<\/a>, the romance just isn\u2019t there anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n The insider continued: \u201cReese and Jim both are more focused on their careers than each other.\u201d<\/p>\n A second source noted that the success of [Witherspoon\u2019s media company] Hello Sunshine<\/a> had been a \u201cbonding factor for them.\u201d Toth, 52, who had co-owned the company, \u201cwas seriously invested in it,\u201d the source shared. But after selling the company in 2021<\/a> \u2014 and Witherspoon taking on more acting roles \u2014 \u201cthey spend more time apart.\u201d<\/p>\n The\u00a0exes\u00a0\u2014 who share son Tennessee<\/a>, 10 \u2014 announced they were calling it quits after 11 years of marriage in a joint Instagram statement<\/a> on Friday, March 24. \u201cWe have some personal news to share \u2026 It is with a great deal of care and consideration that we have made the difficult decision to divorce,\u201d the Big Little Lies<\/em><\/a> alum and the businessman, 52, announced. \u201cWe have enjoyed so many wonderful years together and are moving forward with deep love, kindness, and mutual respect for everything we have created together.\u201d<\/p>\n The statement continued: \u201cOur biggest priority is our son and our entire family<\/a> as we navigate this next chapter. These matters are never easy and are extremely personal. We truly appreciate everyone\u2019s respect for our family\u2019s privacy at this time. Reese and Jim.\u201d<\/p>\n The news of the pair\u2019s split comes just two days before their 12th wedding anniversary<\/a> and two days after Witherspoon\u2019s 47th birthday.<\/p>\n \u201cThank you for all my wonderful, loving, heartfelt birthday wishes,\u201d the Cruel Intentions<\/em><\/a> actress captioned a slideshow of pics of herself and her dog<\/a> via Instagram on Wednesday, March 22. \u201cFeeling very grateful for all the LOVE in my life!\u201d<\/p>\n The Morning Show<\/em><\/a> star and the producer said \u201cI do\u201d in 2011<\/a>, three years after finalizing her divorce from ex-husband Ryan Phillippe<\/strong><\/a>, with whom she shares daughter Ava<\/a> 23, and son Deacon<\/a>, 19.<\/p>\n Witherspoon and Toth went public with their romance<\/a> in 2010, not long after the Wild<\/em> star\u2019s split<\/a> from ex-boyfriend Jake Gyllenhaal<\/strong><\/a> the year prior. They welcomed their first child together one year after their nuptials, with a source telling Us<\/em> at the time, \u201cBoth mom and baby are healthy and the entire family is thrilled.\u201d<\/p>\n In April 2013, the duo were arrested<\/a> \u2014 Witherspoon for disorderly conduct and Toth for DUI \u2014 and instantly made headlines. The Man in the Moon<\/em> star was sentenced to pay a fine, while toth had to complete community service, on year of probation and undergo alcohol education program.<\/p>\n At the time, a police officer told Variety<\/em> that Witherspoon asked whether he knew her name<\/a>. \u201cI answered, \u2018No, I don\u2019t need to know your name.\u2019 I then added, \u2018Right now,\u2019\u201d he shared. \u201cMrs. Witherspoon stated, \u2018You\u2019re about to find out who I am.<\/p>\n She late apologized for her actions in a statement to Us<\/em><\/a> that same month. \u201cI clearly had one drink too many and I am deeply embarrassed about the things I said,\u201d the Sweet Home Alabama<\/em><\/a> star said. \u201cIt was definitely a scary situation and I was frightened for my husband, but that is no excuse. I was disrespectful to the officer who was just doing his job. The words I used that night definitely do not reflect who I am. I have nothing but respect for the police and I\u2019m very sorry for my behavior.\u201d<\/p>\n Prior to her split from Toth, the Your Place or Mine<\/em><\/a> actress often shared glimpses into their family life via Instagram<\/a>. Her most recent post with the talent agent was shared on New Year\u2019s Day<\/a> and featured a pic of the two of them looking at a sunset on the beach with Tennessee. \u201cWelcoming 2023!\u201d she captioned the calm pic. \u201cLet the sun shine in!\u201d<\/p>\n![\"Reese](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Reese-Witherspoon-and-Jim-Toth-Have-Been-Quietly-Diving-Assets-for-Years-Ahead-of-Split-They-Were-%E2%80%98Preparing-for-the-Next-Chapter-186.jpg?w=700&quality=86&strip=all\")
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