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Rachel Lindsay<\/strong><\/a> and Bryan Abasolo<\/strong><\/a> have reached the end of their journey. After four years of marriage, the chiropractor, 43, filed for divorce<\/a> from the former Bachelorette<\/em><\/a>, 38, on January 2, citing irreconcilable differences. \u201cRachel and I have made the difficult decision<\/a> to part ways and start anew,\u201d he wrote on Instagram. \u201cSometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go.\u201d<\/p>\n The news came as a shock to fans as the couple had recently discussed their desire to start a family together. \u201cInstead, it seems they started to grow their brands and their careers and become the best versions of themselves \u2014 separately,\u201d a source exclusively tells Life & Style<\/em>. \u201cRachel was so focused on red carpets and entertainment reporting and hosting, while Bryan [had his] chiropractic practice and podcast [Talking It Out Bachelor Nation]. The more they focused on those things, the more their lives just took off in two different directions.\u201d<\/p>\n Even when Rachel and Bryan were together, all they would do was argue, adds the insider: \u201cIt just didn\u2019t seem like something they wanted to work on. It seemed like more work than they thought a marriage should be.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n