{"id":59052,"date":"2023-12-04T17:54:53","date_gmt":"2023-12-04T17:54:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2023\/12\/04\/golden-bachelors-leslie-fhima-on-what-gerry-turner-said-off-camera\/"},"modified":"2023-12-04T17:54:53","modified_gmt":"2023-12-04T17:54:53","slug":"golden-bachelors-leslie-fhima-on-what-gerry-turner-said-off-camera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2023\/12\/04\/golden-bachelors-leslie-fhima-on-what-gerry-turner-said-off-camera\/","title":{"rendered":"Golden Bachelor&#8217;s Leslie Fhima on What Gerry Turner Said Off Camera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3452967\" style=\"width: 900px;\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:100%;\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption\"><br \/>\n Leslie Fhima, Gerry Turner.<\/span> <span class=\"credit\">ABC(2)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Days after <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/stylish\/news\/was-golden-bachelors-leslies-60k-dress-in-the-finale-teaser\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Golden Bachelor<\/em> finale,<\/a> runner-up <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/leslie-fhima-says-her-worth-isnt-based-on-golden-bachelor-decision\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Leslie Fhima<\/a><\/strong> is dropping new bombshells about her final days with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/golden-bachelor-gerry-turner-addresses-claims-he-misrepresented-career\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Gerry Turner<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The 64-year-old fitness instructor gave her first post-show interview on the Monday, December 4, episode of the<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/bachelor-happy-hour\/id1473649053\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d podcast<\/a>, telling hosts and<em> Bachelor in Paradise<\/em> couple <strong>Joe Amabile <\/strong>and<strong> Serena Pitt<\/strong> that Gerry, 72, made promises to her in the fantasy suites that he didn\u2019t keep.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe made plans with me for [the] future. He said kind of, like, \u2018Save the date, this is what we\u2019re going to do. I can\u2019t wait for us. [In] two more days, we\u2019ll be done with this [and] be together, start our life.\u2019 Did he say, \u2018Will you marry me?\u2019 in there, no, but he all but said that,\u201d Leslie claimed. \u201cI would\u2019ve been happy with just, \u2018I love you,\u2019 but he took it to a different level.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>During the Thursday, November 30, finale of the ABC series, fans watched Gerry end things with Leslie after deciding he had stronger feelings for <strong>Theresa Nist<\/strong>. At <em>After the Final Rose,<\/em> Gerry confirmed he made up his mind during his overnight date with Theresa, 70, which came after he spent the night off camera with Leslie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe woke up the next morning and he left [and] turned around three times and blew me kisses. He didn\u2019t want to leave. That\u2019s why I wasn\u2019t worried that he was going on a date [with Theresa],\u201d Leslie continued. \u201cI just knew that he had to get through the motions of it. And I mean, I was 100 percent sure that I was it. \u2026 He didn\u2019t say, \u2018I have such a hard decision to make.\u2019 Nothing like that.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__thumbnail\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/gerry-turner-theresa-nists-golden-wedding-everything-to-know\/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Gerry-Turner-and-Theresa-Nist-Golden-Wedding-1.jpg?crop=0px%2C78px%2C1333px%2C753px&amp;resize=400%2C225\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist Golden Wedding\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Gerry-Turner-and-Theresa-Nist-Golden-Wedding-1.jpg\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/gerry-turner-theresa-nists-golden-wedding-everything-to-know\/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span>Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist\u2019s \u2018Golden Wedding\u2019: Everything to Know<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tDisney\/John Fleenor Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner found love with Theresa Nist, and they\u2019re gearing up to tie the knot \u2014 live on ABC. Gerry explained to viewers that he and Theresa planned to get married \u201cright away\u201d after their proposal was announced during The Golden Bachelor live finale in November 2023. The show\u2019s host, Jesse [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>On the show, Leslie accused <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelor-afr-recap-leslie-calls-out-gerry-for-blindsiding-her\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gerry of blindsiding her<\/a>. During their <em>AFR<\/em> reunion, he apologized \u2014 but Leslie didn\u2019t accept.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI feel like I didn\u2019t get a ton of closure with him, but that\u2019s OK. I felt like I closed it with myself,\u201d Leslie said. \u201cWhat can [the lead] say? They had to make a choice. It\u2019s his journey, his choice. But he could have chosen not to say those things to me. That\u2019s all. He said he wasn\u2019t ready [or] his heart wasn\u2019t ready, or something like that. I kind of was glazing over at that point, But I didn\u2019t get closure from him. And I don\u2019t know if anything he would\u2019ve said would\u2019ve really given me closure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Following <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelor-finale-gerry-turner-is-engaged-to-theresa-nist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gerry and Theresa\u2019s engagement<\/a>, Theresa joined him on stage and the twosome announced that they are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelor-finale-gerry-theresas-wedding-to-air-on-tv\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">getting married live<\/a> on ABC on January 4, 2024. The couple have since revealed plans to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelors-gerry-turner-theresa-nist-are-moving-to-charleston\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">move to Charleston<\/a>.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:125.4%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3452968\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all\" alt=\"'Golden Bachelor' Runner-Up Leslie Fhima Claims Gerry Turner Made Plans With Her Off Camera\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=300&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 300w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=700&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 700w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=800&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 800w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=900&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 900w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1000w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera2.jpg?w=1400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) calc(100vw - 6em), (max-width: 1000px) 80vw, 1000px\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">Disney\/John Fleenor<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Keep reading for more highlights from Leslie\u2019s \u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d interview \u2014 including what she would do differently than Gerry if she was given a chance to be the first-ever Golden Bachelorette:\n<\/p>\n<h3>What Leslie Would Do Different as the Golden Bachelorette:<\/h3>\n<p>ABC has yet to announce or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelor-stars-producers-weigh-in-on-golden-bachelorette\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pick up <em>The Golden Bachelorette<\/em><\/a>, but fans and host<strong> Jesse Palme<\/strong>r have voiced their support for a spinoff series with a senior female lead. Leslie hinted to Joe and Serena that she would be down to hand out roses \u2014 but would not say \u201cI love you\u201d to her contestants after Gerry said the L-word to Leslie, Theresa and second runner-up <strong>Faith Martin<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI, for sure, would never tell anyone I love them until I am on that platform with them and I know it. I just wouldn\u2019t do that,\u201d Leslie said. \u201cI would never want to hurt anyone the way I was hurt or blindsided. My heart is precious to me and I\u2019m just not going to give it to anybody. And when you say I love you to somebody, it means something. And I just don\u2019t throw that word around. I haven\u2019t said it in a really long time to someone, so it meant something to me to say it to Gerry. I know it would be hard \u2014 I\u2019m sure it\u2019s hard when you, maybe, do love two different people or three different people, but I just wouldn\u2019t say it. I would just show my affection in a different way.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__thumbnail\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/pictures\/biggest-bachelor-nation-scandals-of-all-time\/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/arie-becca-breakup-promos.jpg?crop=147px%2C15px%2C1104px%2C624px&amp;resize=400%2C225&amp;quality=78&amp;strip=all\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"Arie Becca Bachelor Break Up\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/arie-becca-breakup-promos.jpg?quality=86&amp;strip=all\"\/>\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/pictures\/biggest-bachelor-nation-scandals-of-all-time\/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span>Biggest Bachelor Nation Scandals of All Time<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tFrom breakups to makeups and everything in between, Bachelor Nation has seen it all \u2014 and it hasn\u2019t always been pretty. Loyal fans of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette often put in the work to uncover secrets from contestants\u2019 pasts as they search for love on the ABC reality franchise. During Matt James\u2018 historic season, [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Leslie added that Gerry told her that he said \u201cI love you\u201d to Faith, but she wasn\u2019t aware he also said it to Theresa.<\/p>\n<h3>Leslie Says Gerry Was \u2018Harsh\u2019 at \u2018AFR\u2019<\/h3>\n<p>While Leslie acknowledged that there isn\u2019t much Gerry could\u2019ve said to justify his actions at <em>AFR<\/em>, she struggled with some of his word choices.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:125%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3452969\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all\" alt=\"'Golden Bachelor' Runner-Up Leslie Fhima Claims Gerry Turner Made Plans With Her Off Camera\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=300&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 300w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=700&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 700w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=800&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 800w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=900&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 900w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1000w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=1400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Golden-Bachelor-Runner-Up-Leslie-Fhima-Claims-Gerry-Turner-Made-Plans-With-Her-Off-Camera3.jpg?w=1600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) calc(100vw - 6em), (max-width: 1000px) 80vw, 1000px\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">Disney\/John Fleenor<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201c[He said] something about choosing Theresa over me and I thought that was harsh,\u201d she said. \u201cHe could have maybe said that a little bit nicer, especially because being chosen is kind of my [soft spot],\u201d Leslie said before agreeing with Joe when he compared Gerry\u2019s temperament to a business transaction. \u201cGerry \u2014 I feel like he switched. \u2026 I should have said, \u2018I thought you were a man of integrity instead of [saying] you are a man of integrity.\u2019 Because at the end of the day, he didn\u2019t really have the integrity that I thought he had. I mean, listen, I know what I signed up for. \u2026 I didn\u2019t expect it to be so hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<h3>Leslie Struggles to Say She Still Respects Gerry<\/h3>\n<p>When asked whether she still respects Gerry, Leslie hesitated.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe did what he did. It\u2019s his journey. Do I respect him? I just wish he would\u2019ve done it different. I don\u2019t respect what he did,\u201d she said. \u201cI mean, it started with Faith and then me a little more because I went to Costa Rica and did all that. So I feel like he just used \u2018I love you\u2019 too much. And do I respect him? That\u2019s such a hard question, because I want to say I do. But it\u2019s hard. He hurt me.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelors-leslie-fhima-on-what-gerry-turner-said-off-camera\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Leslie Fhima, Gerry Turner. ABC(2) Days after The Golden Bachelor finale, runner-up Leslie Fhima is dropping new bombshells about her final days with Gerry Turner. The 64-year-old fitness instructor gave her first post-show interview on the Monday, December 4, episode of the\u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d podcast, telling hosts and Bachelor in Paradise couple Joe Amabile and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":59053,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-59052","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-entertainment"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59052","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59052"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59052\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59053"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59052"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59052"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59052"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}