{"id":27560,"date":"2023-07-21T16:05:30","date_gmt":"2023-07-21T16:05:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2023\/07\/21\/brandan-and-mary-twisted-mind-games-exposed-in-pre-90-day-fiance-video\/"},"modified":"2023-07-21T16:05:30","modified_gmt":"2023-07-21T16:05:30","slug":"brandan-and-mary-twisted-mind-games-exposed-in-pre-90-day-fiance-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2023\/07\/21\/brandan-and-mary-twisted-mind-games-exposed-in-pre-90-day-fiance-video\/","title":{"rendered":"Brandan and Mary Twisted Mind Games EXPOSED in Pre-90 Day Fiance Video"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Long before they filmed for <em>90 Day Fiance: The Other Way<\/em> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/slideshows\/brandan-and-mary-meet-begin-in-person-surveillance-on-90-day-fiance-the-other-way\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">began in-person surveillance<\/a> of each other, Brandan and Mary\u2019s twisted obsession showed itself in other ways.<\/p>\n<p>Viewers have already seen more than enough of them to feel concerned.<\/p>\n<p>But there\u2019s more to this than 24\/7 video monitoring and intense jealousy in both directions.<\/p>\n<p>In a newly resurfaced video, we can see their hurtful emotional \u201cmind games\u201d play out.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><noscript><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"825\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-480041 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02.png\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02.png 461w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-168x300.png 168w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-187x335.png 187w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-194x347.png 194w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-291x520.png 291w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-358x640.png 358w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_02-429x768.png 429w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">In a May 2022 TikTok video, Brandan De Nuccio displayed odd and immature emotional swings while girlfriend Mary Rosa taunted him. Very weird.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TikTok)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Before Brandan De Nuccio and Mary Rosa signed up for <em>90 Day Fiance: The Other Way<\/em>, they were just a pair of (elder) Gen Z kids in love.<\/p>\n<p>In love \u2026 but already requiring each other to video chat at all times. And both given to fits of extreme jealousy and paranoia.<\/p>\n<p>That is perhaps more evident in a TikTok video that Mary posted herself than it is on the show. We\u2019ll talk about <em>why<\/em> the show isn\u2019t like this in a moment.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-477796\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary.png 900w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-477796 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary.png 900w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/06\/0616_theotherway_brandan_mary-640x427.png 640w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan De Nuccio and Mary Rosa are both 23. Their total obsession with each other is changing the course of their lives forever on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 5.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In the clip, Mary simply turned off the camera while on a video call (when is she not) with Brandan.<\/p>\n<p>This meant that she could watch him \u2014 but he could not watch her.<\/p>\n<p>She filmed her phone on a second device, recording his reaction when he could suddenly no longer see her.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479752\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479752 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_01.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan De Nuccio could do very well for himself if he chose to date locally. Or anywhere, really. But he only has eyes for Mary.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Brandan paused his eating, and she asked if he was \u201cmad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He said that he was not \u2014 initially, anyway. <\/p>\n<p>And he admitted that he was \u201coverthinking\u201d everything in the moment.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"493\" height=\"787\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-480040\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01.png 493w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-188x300.png 188w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-210x335.png 210w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-217x347.png 217w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-326x520.png 326w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-401x640.png 401w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-481x768.png 481w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"493\" height=\"787\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-480040 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01.png 493w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-188x300.png 188w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-210x335.png 210w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-217x347.png 217w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-326x520.png 326w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-401x640.png 401w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0721_brandan_mary_tiktok_01-481x768.png 481w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan De Nuccio repeatedly tries to get Mary Rosa to turn her camera back on during a May 2022 TikTok during a twisted \u201cprank.\u201d Unsettling.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TikTok)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The recording, which seems to be from May of 2022, then shows Mary seem to taunt Brandan.<\/p>\n<p>She asked why he couldn\u2019t see her. In response, he pouted, reminding her that she\u2019d told him that she had turned off her camera.<\/p>\n<p>He then demanded to know why she had turned off the camera. Did she not want him to see her?<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479449 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0713_brandan_02.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan and Mary cannot even undergo a simple dentist visit without monitoring each other on a video call.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cI want to, but I\u2019m not pretty right now. I\u2019m a mess now,\u201d Mary responded. This was seemingly a lie.<\/p>\n<p>Brandan became visibly upset, seeming to shake the camera while he spoke to her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want to f\u2013king see you. You\u2019re not ugly. Don\u2019t say that s\u2013t,\u201d he demanded. \u201cIt\u2019ll make me mad if you say that.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479275\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479275 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_04.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Mary Rosa is a beautiful and very likable young woman outside of the context of her relationship. The same is true of Brandan.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She then encouraged Brandan to go back to eating his food. He refused, since <em>she <\/em>was not eating.<\/p>\n<p>Mary encouraged Brandan, who was standing in a kitchen, to \u201ceat [his] food,\u201d though he refused because she wasn\u2019t eating her own food.<\/p>\n<p>Social media users, starting with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@duuses\/video\/7257645322007088430?_r=1&amp;_t=8e9FUp6Uqkc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TikToker Duuses<\/a> who spotted the video on the algorithmic nightmare app, discussed how effed up this was.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479271\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479271 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_02.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan and Mary are emotionally joined at the hip. Fans have a lot of concerns.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>First and foremost, people remarked on how toxic this \u201cmanipulative, emotional mind game thing\u201d was.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s worse than just 24\/7 surveillance. Because it\u2019s surveillance with unhinged emotional spirals if the surveillance pauses at any time.<\/p>\n<p>Then there\u2019s Mary doing this on purpose to see and record a rise out of Brandan. It\u2019s a bad look for them both.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479759\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479759 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_08.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Even if Mary is sleeping, she insists that Brandan have a wifi signal strong enough for a video call. If the signal drops, she will accuse him of cheating.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Second, it\u2019s a reminder that what we see on <em>90 Day Fiance: The Other Way<\/em> is on-camera behavior, after editing.<\/p>\n<p>Just because Brandan seems like a victim of Mary\u2019s insecurities on screen does not mean that the reverse is not also true.<\/p>\n<p>A number of viewers might be surprised to see this kind of instant mood swing from Brandan. He and Mary are both two sides of this very toxic coin.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479777\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479777 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_15.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">During Brandan\u2019s flight to see her, Mary essentially dumped him because a woman was seated near him on the plane. Even when he switched seats, it did not seem to stay her wrath.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>So, why isn\u2019t this what we\u2019re seeing from them on the show?<\/p>\n<p>Well, for one thing, they both <em>know <\/em>that they\u2019re on camera during the show.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, they act up on the show. Mary cried over Brandan talking to his dental hygienist and acknowledging that he dated once before.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479270 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0711_brandan_01.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Introducing Brandan and Mary by filming them while he sits on the toilet during a video call was a disturbing first impression, but an accurate one.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>But when you\u2019re an unreasonable person, you have a skewed idea of what\u2019s normal to do on camera.<\/p>\n<p>In this moment, on TikTok, Brandan thought that Mary was simply watching him.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t know that she was recording him. So he was, perhaps, at his most honest and unfiltered.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479768 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1024x576.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-520x293.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-640x360.png 640w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0718_brandandenuccio_11.png 1920w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">It wasn\u2019t easy for Brandan\u2019s mother to say goodbye to him as he moved to the Philippines. This was also his first time leaving the US.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (TLC)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Of course, some fans of the show have managed to convince themselves that this relationship\u2019s toxicity is one-sided. That Mary is the sole problem.<\/p>\n<p>But actually, no, that\u2019s not the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Many audience members have issues with racism, xenophobia, and most of all, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/slideshows\/is-90-day-fiance-racist-hit-show-accused-of-xenophobia-misogny\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>90 Day Fiance<\/em>\u2018s infamous misogyny problem<\/a>. The show\u2019s editing caters to that.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-479513 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02.png\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2023\/07\/0714_maryrosa_brandandenuccio_02-640x427.png 640w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Brandan De Nuccio and Mary Rosa got married, as this Facebook photo that his mother Angela Stiggins shared at the time illustrates.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (Facebook)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>While it\u2019s true that Brandan and Mary\u2019s relationship sounds like the basis for a psychological thriller or at least a Lifetime movie, they\u2019re not <em>evil <\/em>people.<\/p>\n<p>But what they have is extremely unhealthy and toxic. And it\u2019s destructive \u2014 not just to their other relationships and careers, but to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>We would like to see things improve for them. It would be impressive if something beautiful sprouts from their twisted obsession.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/2023\/07\/brandan-and-mary-twisted-mind-games-exposed-in-pre-90-day-fiance-video\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Long before they filmed for 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way or began in-person surveillance of each other, Brandan and Mary\u2019s twisted obsession showed itself in other ways. Viewers have already seen more than enough of them to feel concerned. But there\u2019s more to this than 24\/7 video monitoring and intense jealousy in both directions. 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