{"id":258052,"date":"2026-08-17T20:51:16","date_gmt":"2026-08-17T20:51:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/08\/17\/rachel-cusks-life-of-m-isnt-really-about-natalie-portman-so-what-is-it\/"},"modified":"2026-08-17T20:51:16","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T20:51:16","slug":"rachel-cusks-life-of-m-isnt-really-about-natalie-portman-so-what-is-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/08\/17\/rachel-cusks-life-of-m-isnt-really-about-natalie-portman-so-what-is-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Rachel Cusk\u2019s \u2018Life of M\u2019 Isn\u2019t Really About Natalie Portman. So What Is It?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><em>\u201cThe reason that people attack you is that they LAMINATE onto you,\u201d [the showrunner] repeated again and again. \u201cYou scare them, so THEY ARE LAMINATING.\u201d I wasn\u2019t sure what she meant\u2014projection? Transference? But all I could picture was an image of myself, cut out like a paper doll and flattened, encased on both sides in shiny plastic, hanging from a lanyard at a conference.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">It\u2019s an imperfect analogy. But just as Dunham inadvertently evokes strong, sometimes delusional emotions in both her peers and the public, so does Portman. (Incidentally, Portman is starring in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/hollywood\/photos\/lena-dunham-natalie-portman-filming-good-sex?srsltid=AfmBOoq7xopduv5UyyLKcnIQb2Mua5udpnSZOUtk34z-M1CpVZZUJxZW\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">Dunham\u2019s upcoming Netflix comedy<\/a>, <em>Good Sex;<\/em> Dunham thanks Portman in <em>Famesick<\/em>\u2019s acknowledgments.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Many of the people experiencing those emotions are men. See, for instance, the <em>Star Wars<\/em> fans who have idolized Portman since <em>The Phantom Menace;<\/em> Zach Braff, who wrote the ultimate manic-pixie-dream-girl role in his millennial touchstone <em>Garden State<\/em> <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.hollywoodreporter.com\/movies\/movie-features\/garden-state-oral-history-zach-braff-natalie-portman-1235958082\/\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.hollywoodreporter.com\/movies\/movie-features\/garden-state-oral-history-zach-braff-natalie-portman-1235958082\/&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hollywoodreporter.com\/movies\/movie-features\/garden-state-oral-history-zach-braff-natalie-portman-1235958082\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">with Portman in mind<\/a>; and Moby, the musician who <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/style\/2019\/05\/moby-natalie-portman-dating-apology\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">claimed in his own memoir<\/a> that he and Portman dated when he was 33 years old and she was just 20. Portman remembered their relationship very differently: \u201cI was surprised to hear that he characterized the very short time that I knew him as dating because my recollection is a much older man being creepy with me when I just had graduated high school,\u201d she <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/uk\/culture\/a27528546\/natalie-portman-interview-factory-farming-moby\/\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/uk\/culture\/a27528546\/natalie-portman-interview-factory-farming-moby\/&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/uk\/culture\/a27528546\/natalie-portman-interview-factory-farming-moby\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">told <em>Harper\u2019s Bazaar<\/em> UK<\/a> in 2019. \u201cHe said I was 20; I definitely wasn\u2019t. I was a teenager. I had just turned 18. There was no fact-checking from him or his publisher\u2014it almost feels deliberate. That he used this story to sell his book was very disturbing to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Then there\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/style\/2021\/08\/the-state-of-the-literary-jonathans\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">Jonathan Safran Foer<\/a>, whose 20-teens-era <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/jonathan-safran-foers-iea_b_334407\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/jonathan-safran-foers-iea_b_334407&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/jonathan-safran-foers-iea_b_334407\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">friendship<\/a> with the actor has long been the subject of <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/2016\/07\/natalie-portmans-emails-to-jonathan-safran-foer.html\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/2016\/07\/natalie-portmans-emails-to-jonathan-safran-foer.html&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/2016\/07\/natalie-portmans-emails-to-jonathan-safran-foer.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">rumor<\/a> and <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/entertainment\/natalie-portman-moby-and-jonathan-safran-foer-actors-history-of-rejecting-men-who-misread-her\/T4VYQSJIDRQ2LJNUMA4RO4RCKU\/\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/entertainment\/natalie-portman-moby-and-jonathan-safran-foer-actors-history-of-rejecting-men-who-misread-her\/T4VYQSJIDRQ2LJNUMA4RO4RCKU\/&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/entertainment\/natalie-portman-moby-and-jonathan-safran-foer-actors-history-of-rejecting-men-who-misread-her\/T4VYQSJIDRQ2LJNUMA4RO4RCKU\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">speculation<\/a>; a <em>T<\/em> Magazine story <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/07\/14\/t-magazine\/natalie-portman-jonathan-safran-foer-emails.html\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/07\/14\/t-magazine\/natalie-portman-jonathan-safran-foer-emails.html&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/07\/14\/t-magazine\/natalie-portman-jonathan-safran-foer-emails.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">reprinting their emails<\/a> only raised more questions. It even inspired a storyline in a 2023 Off-Broadway play called <em>The Wanderers,<\/em> which is\u2014among other things\u2014about a nebbish Brooklyn novelist <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.jta.org\/2023\/03\/07\/ny\/but-his-emails-jonathan-safran-foers-online-flirtation-with-natalie-portman-inspires-a-new-play\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.jta.org\/2023\/03\/07\/ny\/but-his-emails-jonathan-safran-foers-online-flirtation-with-natalie-portman-inspires-a-new-play&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jta.org\/2023\/03\/07\/ny\/but-his-emails-jonathan-safran-foers-online-flirtation-with-natalie-portman-inspires-a-new-play\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">falling in love<\/a> with a glamorous actress who doesn\u2019t return his affection. Katie Holmes played the actress, wearing a short, brown, Portman-esque wig.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Just before the pandemic, Manhattan\u2019s MCC Theater staged a show called <em><a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/02\/25\/theater\/all-the-natalie-portmans-review.html?smid=tw-nytimesarts&amp;smtyp=cur\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/02\/25\/theater\/all-the-natalie-portmans-review.html?smid=tw-nytimesarts&amp;smtyp=cur&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/02\/25\/theater\/all-the-natalie-portmans-review.html?smid=tw-nytimesarts&amp;smtyp=cur\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">All the Natalie Portmans<\/a>,<\/em> about a gay Black teenage cinephile who envisions the actor as a kind of manic pixie imaginary friend. Though she wasn\u2019t involved with either play, Portman, too, has occasionally skewered her own image: The disconnect between her good-girl guise and the idea of her breaking bad fueled a viral <em>SNL<\/em> digital short Portman <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-A0iftflme4\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">made in 2006<\/a>, and a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QS8bma7LRX4\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">sequel<\/a> released in 2018. That filthy first song was apparently Portman\u2019s idea. (She wanted the world to know that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=edvkZjQryGw\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">she could rap<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Portman must be aware, then, that over 30-odd years of stardom, she\u2019s become a strange sort of lightning rod, the kind of actor who often gets thrust into other people\u2019s narratives even when she\u2019s not playing a part. Perhaps that\u2019s because she possesses several contrasting attributes, disparities that evidently drive people crazy: Portman is not only beautiful but also a Harvard grad. She\u2019s not only a sophisticate but also the star of <em>Mr. Magorium\u2019s Wonder Emporium.<\/em> Culture writers have argued (not unconvincingly!) that she\u2019s at her best onscreen when she\u2019s <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2023\/12\/natalie-portman-may-december-movie-netflix-black-swan-jackie.html?via=rss_socialflow_facebook\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2023\/12\/natalie-portman-may-december-movie-netflix-black-swan-jackie.html?via=rss_socialflow_facebook&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2023\/12\/natalie-portman-may-december-movie-netflix-black-swan-jackie.html?via=rss_socialflow_facebook\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">playing a bad actor<\/a>. This spring, she revealed that she\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/style\/story\/natalie-portman-pregnant-at-44\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"text link\" rel=\"noopener\">pregnant with her third child<\/a>; the very notion was enough to set off a fresh round of chatter about middle-aged women having babies, sending otherwise rational novelists into <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/yearning-for-third-child-anxiety-envy-parenting.html\" class=\"external-link text link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/yearning-for-third-child-anxiety-envy-parenting.html&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/yearning-for-third-child-anxiety-envy-parenting.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">tailspins<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/story\/natalie-portman-rachel-cusk-life-of-m-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe reason that people attack you is that they LAMINATE onto you,\u201d [the showrunner] repeated again and again. \u201cYou scare them, so THEY ARE LAMINATING.\u201d I wasn\u2019t sure what she meant\u2014projection? Transference? But all I could picture was an image of myself, cut out like a paper doll and flattened, encased on both sides in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":258053,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[818,1759],"class_list":{"0":"post-258052","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrity","8":"tag-books","9":"tag-natalie-portman"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258052","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=258052"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258052\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/258053"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=258052"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=258052"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=258052"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}