{"id":237372,"date":"2026-04-29T08:00:11","date_gmt":"2026-04-29T08:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/29\/ray-j-45-claims-hes-slept-with-over-12000-women\/"},"modified":"2026-04-29T08:00:11","modified_gmt":"2026-04-29T08:00:11","slug":"ray-j-45-claims-hes-slept-with-over-12000-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/29\/ray-j-45-claims-hes-slept-with-over-12000-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Ray J, 45, claims he&#8217;s slept with over 12,000 women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"byline\">\n<p>        <time itemprop=\"datePublished\" content=\"2026-04-29\" datetime=\"1777449611\" pubdate=\"\">29 April 2026<\/time>\n    <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/ray-j\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,ray-j\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ray J<\/a> claims he has slept with well over 12,000 women.<\/p>\n<p>                            <\/p>\n<p class=\"image-caption landscape\">Ray J claims he&#8217;s slept with thousands of women<\/p>\n<p>The 45-year-old singer has made a staggering confession about his love life, insisting the number of women he&#8217;s slept with has reached five figures, and he credits the high number with his experiences on tour.<\/p>\n<p>He told the Funky Friday podcast: &#8220;These are 10,000 different people. It&#8217;s at, like, 12,500 now, but I wanted to get to 11.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was guaranteed 10. I didn\u2019t want to be at 9,000, and I wanted to be at 11. Then\u2026 we went to 10. Just wanted to make sure I was over.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Podcast host Cam Newton was sceptical about the number, pointing out that at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/ray-j\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,ray-j\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ray J<\/a>&#8216;s age, that meant &#8220;sleeping with a little over one and a half women a day for 30 years&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>\nHowever, the star suggested: &#8220;Yeah, the math is different, because when we&#8217;re on tour, we&#8217;re thinking five to 10 a day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nHe guessed that there have been around 3,500 times where he slept with &#8220;three or more&#8221; partners at once.<\/p>\n<p>\nNewton was incredulous when Ray J defended his high number, claiming he knows women who sleep with 45,000 men a year.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe podcast host argued: &#8220;There&#8217;s only 365 days in a year.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nWhen it comes to his own bedroom habits, Ray J insisted he won&#8217;t be trying to hit Wilt Chamberlain&#8217;s alleged number of 25,000.<\/p>\n<p>\nHe said: &#8220;I can only f*** a thousand more&#8230; I can&#8217;t do anymore.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nRay J &#8211; who has dated the likes of Kim Kardashian and Brittany Pena in the past &#8211; insisted he had hundreds of his previous sexual partners turn up to a party at the Booty Trap Club once he hit the 10,000 mark.<\/p>\n<p>\nHe claimed: &#8220;I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f***** with came through, supported&#8230; It was a massive parade.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nMeanwhile, Ray J&#8217;s ex Kim and her mother Kris Jenner recently lost a bid to keep details of a settlement they reached with the singer a secret.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe Kardashians stars sued the singer &#8211; who was infamously Kim&#8217;s partner in her 2007 sex tape &#8211; for defamation last October after they accused him of waging a decades-long campaign against them with his repeated claims that they are the subject of a federal criminal investigation into racketeering, and he hit back in a countersuit which alleged the pair had violated the provisions of a settlement agreement they reached in 2023 over the sex tape.<\/p>\n<p>\nRay had claimed he was paid $6 million to never speak about the sex tape but argued his former lover and her mom had violated the deal by discussing the topic on their reality show.<\/p>\n<p>\nAccording to court paperwork obtained by TMZ, a Los Angeles Superior Court judge has denied Kim and Kris\u2019 request to seal certain documents, including the terms of the 2023 deal because it was felt they hadn&#8217;t presented enough evidence that they would be caused harm if the specifics of the settlement were made public.<\/p>\n<p>\nKim and Kris&#8217; lawyers argued: \u201cThe agreement resolved highly sensitive matters that the parties explicitly agreed to keep confidential in order to protect their families from public disclosure and respect these sensitive matters.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nRay had opposed the request and the judge agreed, ordering Kim and Kris to file unredacted versions of the agreement.<\/p>\n<p><!-- Pagination --><\/p>\n<p><!-- playbuzz --><br \/>\n<!-- end playbuzz--><\/p>\n<p><!-- \n\n<div data-cn-project=\"femalefirst\">\n    \n<\/div>\n\n --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n<!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<p>    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/celebrity\/ray-45-claims-slept-12000-women-1441455.html?f=rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>29 April 2026 Ray J claims he has slept with well over 12,000 women. 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