her post<\/a>, the Redditor explained that she had \u201crented a hotel suite in the city\u201d and \u201cpaid for hair and makeup for all [her] bridesmaids.\u201d <\/p>\nShe added that she decided to pay for her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, too, so that they would feel included. <\/p>\n
However, the women showed up late with the sister-in-law\u2019s husband, who also wanted to hang out in the suite until the wedding started. <\/p>\n
\u201cAll three of them sat on the couch, and her husband stayed there on his phone. I texted my husband asking if he was supposed to stay and get dressed there. He didn\u2019t know either. I told him this was meant to be a women-only space, since all of us were wearing robes that open easily and our underwear was visible,\u201d the bride explained. <\/p>\n
Trying to work things out, the bride proposed that her future brother-in-law wait in the lobby or head to where the groom was. However, her sister-in-law was not thrilled. <\/p>\n
\u201cShe got upset and tried to leave, but the hair and makeup artists convinced her to come back since it was already paid for,\u201d the bride recalled. <\/p>\n
After they finished with glam, she added that her sister-in-law, mother-in-law and brother-in-law \u201cleft anyway and waited in the lobby. They even ended up getting dressed in the lobby bathroom, even though my mother-in-law and sister-in-law were allowed to stay in the suite if they wanted to.\u201d<\/p>\n
While she wrote that her sister-in-law was \u201cclearly very upset,\u201d the bride said that her mom said that \u201cit was rude to bring a man into a room where only women were getting ready.\u201d <\/p>\n
Asking if she made the right decision, the bride was overwhelmingly assured that her sister-in-law had been inappropriate. <\/p>\n
\u201cHer husband is an adult, right? I think he can entertain himself for a few hours (bar, take a walk, uber to wherever your husband is),\u201d one person wrote. <\/p>\n
Someone else said that the situation was \u201cvery absurd,\u201d writing, \u201cShe rather get dressed in lobby than let her adult husband go sit in the lobby????\u201d<\/p>\n
Regarding the bride\u2019s brother-in-law, someone wrote that he \u201cshould have backed out immediately once the situation was clear,\u201d adding that the sister-in-law and her mom \u201cshould have told him to get out if he didn\u2019t immediately read the room.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHonestly, I think you were under reacting, reaching out to your now husband first and asking him what was up or to take a stand. You could have easily said, \u2018Get out right now,\u2019 to your SiL\u2019s husband and still be absolutely positively [not the a——],\u201d they continued.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n