{"id":215517,"date":"2026-01-08T20:06:15","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T20:06:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/08\/ashley-tisdales-former-friends-feel-blindsided-by-essay\/"},"modified":"2026-01-08T20:06:15","modified_gmt":"2026-01-08T20:06:15","slug":"ashley-tisdales-former-friends-feel-blindsided-by-essay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/08\/ashley-tisdales-former-friends-feel-blindsided-by-essay\/","title":{"rendered":"Ashley Tisdale&#8217;s former friends &#8216;feel blindsided&#8217; by essay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"byline\">\n<p>        <time itemprop=\"datePublished\" content=\"2026-01-08\" datetime=\"1767902775\" pubdate=\"\">8 January 2026<\/time>\n    <\/p>\n<p>Hilary Duff and Mandy Moore reportedly feel &#8220;blindsided&#8221; by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/ashley-tisdale\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,ashley-tisdale\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ashley Tisdale<\/a>&#8216;s controversial essay.<\/p>\n<p>                            <\/p>\n<p class=\"image-caption landscape\">Ashley Tisdale recently penned her controversial essay<\/p>\n<p>The 40-year-old star previously penned an essay about leaving behind a &#8220;toxic&#8221; mom group, and the comments are said to have surprised the likes of Hilary and Mandy.<\/p>\n<p>A source told Us Weekly: &#8220;They all feel blindsided and hurt by Ashley speaking out the way she did.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;From their perspective, they believed the group was supportive and coming from a good place, and they never thought there was any bad intent behind how things played out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The group felt like &#8220;issues that could\u2019ve been handled privately were instead made public, which made them feel unfairly portrayed&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe insider added: &#8220;The moms insist there was no \u2018mean girl\u2019 behaviour and say they were genuinely trying to be there for one another during a really vulnerable time in all of their lives.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nAshley &#8211; who has daughters Jupiter, four, and Emerson, 15 months &#8211; recently discussed leaving her &#8220;toxic&#8221; group of mom friends in a blog post.<\/p>\n<p>\nShe said: &#8220;Here\u2019s the thing nobody prepared me for: Mom groups can turn toxic. <\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;Not because the moms themselves are toxic people, but because the dynamic shifts into an ugly place with mean-girl behaviour. I know this from personal experience.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nAshley explained there were group text chains that &#8220;didn&#8217;t include everyone&#8221; and there were &#8220;hangouts&#8221; she didn&#8217;t get invited to.<\/p>\n<p>\nIn her essay for The Cut, she went on to open up about how she started to feel &#8220;excluded&#8221;, writing: &#8220;I was certain that I\u2019d found my village.<\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;But over time, I began to wonder whether that was really true. I remember being left out of a couple of group hangs, and I knew about them because Instagram made sure it fed me every single photo and Instagram Story. <\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;Another time, at one of the mom\u2019s dinner parties, I realised where I sat with her &#8211; which was at the end of the table, far from the rest of the women. I was starting to feel frozen out of the group, noticing every way that they seemed to exclude me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><!-- Pagination --><\/p>\n<p><!-- playbuzz --><br \/>\n<!-- end playbuzz--><\/p>\n<p><!-- \n\n<div data-cn-project=\"femalefirst\">\n    \n<\/div>\n\n --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n<!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<p>    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/celebrity\/ashley-tisdales-former-friends-feel-blindsided-essay-1435662.html?f=rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>8 January 2026 Hilary Duff and Mandy Moore reportedly feel &#8220;blindsided&#8221; by Ashley Tisdale&#8216;s controversial essay. Ashley Tisdale recently penned her controversial essay The 40-year-old star previously penned an essay about leaving behind a &#8220;toxic&#8221; mom group, and the comments are said to have surprised the likes of Hilary and Mandy. 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