{"id":213387,"date":"2025-12-27T07:01:18","date_gmt":"2025-12-27T07:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/27\/sophie-ellis-bextor-ive-had-too-many-children-to-be-a-strict-parent\/"},"modified":"2025-12-27T07:01:18","modified_gmt":"2025-12-27T07:01:18","slug":"sophie-ellis-bextor-ive-had-too-many-children-to-be-a-strict-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/27\/sophie-ellis-bextor-ive-had-too-many-children-to-be-a-strict-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Sophie Ellis-Bextor: &#8216;I&#8217;ve had too many children to be a strict parent&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"byline\">\n<p>        <time itemprop=\"datePublished\" content=\"2025-12-27\" datetime=\"1766818878\" pubdate=\"\">27 December 2025<\/time>\n    <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/sophie-ellisbextor\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,sophie-ellisbextor\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sophie Ellis-Bextor<\/a> has no rules in her house.<\/p>\n<p>                            <\/p>\n<p class=\"image-caption landscape\">Sophie Ellis-Bextor: &#8216;I&#8217;ve had too many children to be a strict parent&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The 46-year-old singer has five children &#8211; Sonny, 21, Kit, 14, Ray, 11, Jesse, seven, and Mickey, four \u2013 with her husband Richard Jones and says there are \u201ctoo many\u201d kids for her to impose rules at home.<\/p>\n<p>She told The Telegraph: \u201cI&#8217;m a communicator. I often ask them, \u2018What would you do if you were the parent in this situation?\u2019 We&#8217;re big on talking about stuff \u2013 we don&#8217;t have fixed rules about anything [but they] self-regulate.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have boundaries. I want all of us to have a moral compass. Kindness is a big thing. Also freedom. The world is all about what you dial up and what to dial down \u2013 there&#8217;s a lot going on for the boys with schools and exams.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want home to be a place where they can feel good, safe and supported by their siblings. So I&#8217;m quite firm around the edges of all that because I really value it.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cBut I&#8217;ve had too many children to be a strict parent \u2013 I&#8217;ve realised that is not a value of mine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\nSophie also revealed that her eldest child Sonny has moved in with his grandmother.<\/p>\n<p>\nShe explained that they have \u201calways been so close\u201d and his grandmother lived alone before he went to live with her.<\/p>\n<p>\nWhen it comes to Sonny, 21, he has moved in with his grandmother who lives close by &#8211; something which Sophie encouraged.<\/p>\n<p>\nMeanwhile, Sophie revealed earlier this year that some of her children were being picked on for their red hair.<\/p>\n<p>\nShe told Andreas Wild on her Salon Confidential podcast: \u201cIt&#8217;s [bullying] definitely been something they&#8217;ve experienced, which is really harsh.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cYou get to secondary school and anything that marks you out becomes the thing you will be teased about.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cIt&#8217;s extraordinary how you have this desire at that age group just to blend in, to be part of the pack. It&#8217;s a really strong instinct. <\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cBut rather than letting it make you feel down, hopefully by having conversations, you can actually keep an eye on it and keep it on the right side of things.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><!-- Pagination --><\/p>\n<p><!-- playbuzz --><br \/>\n<!-- end playbuzz--><\/p>\n<p><!-- \n\n<div data-cn-project=\"femalefirst\">\n    \n<\/div>\n\n --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n<!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<p>    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/celebrity\/sophie-ellis-bextor-many-children-strict-parent-1435141.html?f=rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>27 December 2025 Sophie Ellis-Bextor has no rules in her house. Sophie Ellis-Bextor: &#8216;I&#8217;ve had too many children to be a strict parent&#8217; The 46-year-old singer has five children &#8211; Sonny, 21, Kit, 14, Ray, 11, Jesse, seven, and Mickey, four \u2013 with her husband Richard Jones and says there are \u201ctoo many\u201d kids for [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":213388,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[7225],"class_list":{"0":"post-213387","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-make-up","8":"tag-sophie-ellis-bextor"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/213387","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=213387"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/213387\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/213388"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=213387"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=213387"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=213387"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}