{"id":212658,"date":"2025-12-22T23:06:10","date_gmt":"2025-12-22T23:06:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/22\/lily-allen-in-therapy-for-spending-addiction-after-shopping-like-an-insane-person\/"},"modified":"2025-12-22T23:06:10","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T23:06:10","slug":"lily-allen-in-therapy-for-spending-addiction-after-shopping-like-an-insane-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/22\/lily-allen-in-therapy-for-spending-addiction-after-shopping-like-an-insane-person\/","title":{"rendered":"Lily Allen in therapy for spending addiction after &#8216;shopping like an insane person&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"byline\">\n<p>        <time itemprop=\"datePublished\" content=\"2025-12-22\" datetime=\"1766444770\" pubdate=\"\">22 December 2025<\/time>\n    <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/lily-allen\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,lily-allen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Lily Allen<\/a> has been &#8220;shopping like an insane person&#8221; following the success of her album West End Girl.<\/p>\n<p>                            <\/p>\n<p class=\"image-caption landscape\">Lily Allen has been splashing the cash<\/p>\n<p>The 40-year-old singer explained that she is in therapy for her spending addiction after splashing the cash on lavish items since the release of her critically acclaimed record &#8211; which addressed the end of her marriage to Stranger Things actor <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/david-harbour\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,david-harbour\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">David Harbour<\/a> &#8211; in October.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking to her best friend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/miquita-oliver\/\" class=\"exposure-link \" data-linktrack=\"LinkTracker,articleExposure,miquita-oliver\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Miquita Oliver<\/a> on a Christmas special of their Miss Me? podcast, Lily said: &#8220;I&#8217;m just playing with my huge diamond and emerald ring, I bought myself a little present but it&#8217;s not that little.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve go to treat yourself and mark the moment. I&#8217;m convinced I&#8217;m a billionaire. Handbags have been bought, jewels and a car have been bought.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The Smile hitmaker revealed that she has been in Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR) as a result of her excessive spending.<\/p>\n<p>\nLily explained: &#8220;I start doing EMDR therapy four months ago and it&#8217;s been life changing. EMDR therapy is a special type of therapy that stimulates the brain and creates new pathways to certain behaviours or traumatic experiences.<\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;This is what is working for me currently, I&#8217;m not a doctor though.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nShe continued: &#8220;You usually start by deciding an area, like a traumatic experience you want to focus on and visualise the experience and identify the feeling that are coming up in your body and mind and the pain levels go down.<\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;If you&#8217;re trying to stop a negative behaviour like spending or drug taking, you do the opposite and think of the good feeling and try and dissociate that feeling from your self-worth.<\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;In my case a handbag, you separate it by saying this handbag is making me a better person. It is really interesting and I&#8217;m not clear on the science but it is working for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nMeanwhile, Allen suggested that she has a better idea of the &#8220;pain&#8221; she caused during her first marriage to Sam Cooper as a result of her separation from Harbour.<\/p>\n<p>\nLily &#8211; who has daughters Ethel, 14, and Marnie, 12, with Cooper &#8211; told the Observer newspaper: &#8220;Having done things that were not very nice in my first marriage, I have a better idea of the pain I may have inflicted. <\/p>\n<p>\n&#8220;I&#8217;ve learned how horrible it is to be on the receiving end of that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><!-- Pagination --><\/p>\n<p><!-- playbuzz --><br \/>\n<!-- end playbuzz--><\/p>\n<p><!-- \n\n<div data-cn-project=\"femalefirst\">\n    \n<\/div>\n\n --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n<!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<p>    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><br \/>\n    <!-- Outbrain { date: 2018\/06\/08 } --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femalefirst.co.uk\/celebrity\/lily-allen-therapy-spending-addiction-after-shopping-like-insane-person-1435040.html?f=rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>22 December 2025 Lily Allen has been &#8220;shopping like an insane person&#8221; following the success of her album West End Girl. 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