{"id":207597,"date":"2025-11-26T18:01:33","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T18:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/26\/jordan-jessi-ngatikaura-address-affair-alleged-emotional-abuse\/"},"modified":"2025-11-26T18:01:33","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T18:01:33","slug":"jordan-jessi-ngatikaura-address-affair-alleged-emotional-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/26\/jordan-jessi-ngatikaura-address-affair-alleged-emotional-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Jordan &#038; Jessi Ngatikaura Address Affair, Alleged Emotional Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Jordan and Jessi Ngatikaura have had some serious issues in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Much of their time on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/2025\/10\/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-season-3-trailer-is-momtok-finished\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives<\/em> Season 3<\/a> involved the fractures in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Then, of course, there was what went down with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/2025\/05\/jessi-ngatikaura-trashes-marciano-brunette-what-a-piece-of-hit\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Jessi and Marciano<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Jordan\u2019s speaking about his wife\u2019s affair, his own behavior, and then even more about his wife\u2019s affair.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><\/noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jessi Ngatikaura and husband Jordan Ngatikaura.\" class=\"wp-image-541421 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_03_jessingatikaura.png\" loading=\"lazy\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Jessi Ngatikaura and husband Jordan Ngatikaura have plenty of room between them on this sofa.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (Image Credit: YouTube)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-jordan-and-jessi-ngatikaura-are-still-processing-a-lot\">Jordan and Jessi Ngatikaura are still processing a lot<\/h2>\n<p><em>The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives<\/em> viewers are all too aware that Jessi Ngatikaura and Marciano Brunette hooked up.<\/p>\n<p>In 2024, they were both on <em>Vanderpump Villa<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>There, the two shared a kiss.<\/p>\n<p>After the fact, Jessi and Marciano continued their entanglement by texting each other.<\/p>\n<p>However, she has adamantly denied ever having sex with him. There was kissing and clearly an emotional and verbal affair, but she says that that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jordan Ngatikaura and Nick Viall.\" class=\"wp-image-541422\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jordan Ngatikaura and Nick Viall.\" class=\"wp-image-541422 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_01.png\" loading=\"lazy\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">On \u2018The Viall Files,\u2019 Jordan Ngatikaura didn\u2019t seem to make a lot of personal progress.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (Image Credit: YouTube)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The affair was not the only issue in the Ngatikaura marriage.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it may have simply been the result of other problems.<\/p>\n<p>Jessi has accused Jordan of emotional abuse. <\/p>\n<p>That was a big deal during Season 3 of <em>The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives<\/em>. It\u2019s also a big deal in a marriage. You need to be nice to your partner.<\/p>\n<p>They share 5-year-old Jagger and 2-year-old Jovi. But having children doesn\u2019t keep a marriage strong or healthy \u2014 it just makes having a non-toxic relationship more important.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Going Deeper with Jessi And Jordan | The Viall Files w\/ Nick Viall\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZxIDqHwjiyU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-now-jordan-is-speaking-publicly-about-all-of-it\">Now, Jordan is speaking publicly \u2014 about all of it<\/h2>\n<p>On the Wednesday, November 26 episode of <em>The Viall Files<\/em>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ZxIDqHwjiyU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Jordan Ngatikaura discussed Jessi<\/a> and her affair.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking to podcast host Nick Viall, he made it clear that he has a lot of complex feelings about his wife, his own behavior, and his new role as a \u201csocial media personality\u201d alongside Jessi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy plan is just to focus on my family,\u201d Jordan emphasized.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll these people online can chirp all day,\u201d he added dismissively.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s going to be people that hate me and there\u2019s gonna be people that hate her,\u201d Jordan acknowledged. \u201cThere\u2019s going to be a really big broad spectrum of what people think about what they\u2019ve been able to see.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jessi Ngatikaura and Jordan Ngatikaura.\" class=\"wp-image-541423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jessi Ngatikaura and Jordan Ngatikaura.\" class=\"wp-image-541423 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_04_jessingatikaura.png\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Are Jessi Ngatikaura and Jordan Ngatikaura going to make it as a couple? Should they?<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (Image Credit: YouTube)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cI think the best thing that I can do in that instead of being pissed off,\u201d Jordan suggested, \u201cit\u2019s to remember that that\u2019s in the past.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He affirmed: \u201cWhat we\u2019re doing now is what matters and turning into one another and not away from one another.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jordan admitted that it felt \u201creally eye-opening\u201d to watch his own behavior play back for him on television. <\/p>\n<p>This is not an uncommon statement to hear from new reality TV personalities. (Anyone else thinking of Emily Simpson and her husband Shane after their first season on <em>RHOC<\/em>?)<\/p>\n<p>Yes, reality television can drive couples apart. But it can also provide a mirror through which a person can see their own toxic behavior. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jordan Ngatikaura alone on the sofa.\" class=\"wp-image-541424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\"\/><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Jordan Ngatikaura alone on the sofa.\" class=\"wp-image-541424 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-960x540.png 960w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1080x608.png 1080w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02-1200x675.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 20px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.thehollywoodgossip.com\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1126_jordanngatikaura_02.png\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Jordan Ngatikaura sits on the \u2018The Viall Files\u2019 couch.<span class=\"image-caption-credit\"> (Image Credit: YouTube)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-interview-was-interesting-but-didn-t-really-go-anywhere\">The interview was interesting, but didn\u2019t really go anywhere<\/h2>\n<p>Interestingly, Jordan Ngatikaura did acknowledge that Jessi and Marciano likely never would have locked lips if he had made different choices.<\/p>\n<p>However, he also continued to bring up the affair throughout the podcast episode.<\/p>\n<p>One can only guess who Jessi felt. Certainly, Nick seemed irritated. Harping upon your partner\u2019s mistake to deflect from a conversation about your own is a not a good look.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing the way that Jordan bristled when Jessi described how her social media and reality TV work has provided for her family, it became clear that Jordan is still reeling from not having his former job.<\/p>\n<p>If Jordan chooses, he can work on himself and fix himself. It might not be too late for the Ngatikaura marriage. It probably <em>should <\/em>be, though.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehollywoodgossip.com\/2025\/11\/jessi-ngatikaura-husband-jordan-responds-to-affair\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reading Time: 3 minutes Jordan and Jessi Ngatikaura have had some serious issues in their relationship. Much of their time on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 3 involved the fractures in their relationship. Then, of course, there was what went down with Jessi and Marciano. Jordan\u2019s speaking about his wife\u2019s affair, his own [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":207599,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-207597","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-hollywood"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=207597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207597\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/207599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=207597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=207597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=207597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}