{"id":203242,"date":"2025-11-04T23:11:29","date_gmt":"2025-11-04T23:11:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/04\/kristin-cavallari-details-negative-self-talk-calling-herself-fat\/"},"modified":"2025-11-04T23:11:29","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T23:11:29","slug":"kristin-cavallari-details-negative-self-talk-calling-herself-fat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/04\/kristin-cavallari-details-negative-self-talk-calling-herself-fat\/","title":{"rendered":"Kristin Cavallari Details Negative Self Talk, Calling Herself Fat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/kristin-cavallari\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Kristin Cavallari<\/strong><\/a> is preaching the practice of \u201cself-talk\u201d after struggling with her own negative thoughts regarding body image.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know for me personally, growing up I always had a really negative loop playing about body image,\u201d Cavallari, 38, said during the Tuesday, November 4, episode of her \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=xYsGx4r7Mn8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Let\u2019s Be Honest<\/a>\u201d podcast. \u201cI always felt like I was kinda fat growing up. Especially <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/lauren-conrad-and-kristin-cavallari-squad-feud-with-laguna-beach-reunion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">living at the beach<\/a> and a lot of girls in high school, their bodies were perfect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cavallari recalled \u201calways\u201d having \u201ca few extra pounds on me,\u201d which she said was located in her \u201cbelly\u201d and something she was \u201creally, really self-conscious about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She remembered filming walking scenes on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/shows\/laguna-beach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Laguna Beach<\/em><\/a> when she was a junior in high school, during which she would \u201chold my purse in front of my stomach because I didn\u2019t want to show it on camera.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cavallari explained that it\u2019s \u201ccrazy\u201d to still be thinking about those past insecurities, but noted, \u201cWhen we have these thoughts and we\u2019ve had them for years it\u2019s really hard to change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/kristin-cavallari-returns-to-dating-after-being-set-up-with-sports-coach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Uncommon James founder<\/a> said that she now feels \u201cthe best I\u2019ve ever felt in my body,\u201d but her newfound confidence hasn\u2019t completely quieted the negative voices in her head.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI still work really hard in the gym. I eat really well. I hardly ever drink alcohol. I test all my hormones and my vitamin levels and my gut. I do all of the things,\u201d Cavallari said. \u201cI think I look the best I ever have. That\u2019s not me bragging.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kristin-cavallari-stuns-in-bikini-during-family-vacation\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-source=\"01\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kristin-cavallari-stuns-in-bikini-during-family-vacation\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-source=\"01\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Kristin Cavallari Shows Off Her Bikini Body While in \u2018Vacation Mode\u2019<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tKristin Cavallari proved she has the ultimate bikini style as she showed off her stunning figure in a gorgeous two-piece. The Honestly Cavallari star, 38, looked tanned and toned as she shared selfies via Instagram on Thursday, July 3. In the post, Cavallari shared snippets of a vacation she has been enjoying with her kids, [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>She pointed out that after looking back at photos, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-moms\/news\/kristin-cavallari-is-hyperaware-of-body-positivity-around-daughter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">she is confident about her body<\/a>, but can periodically slip into a negative headspace.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI still sometimes have this f***ing loop in my head that\u2019s like, \u2018You\u2019re fat,\u2019\u201d Cavallari confessed. \u201cI have to stop myself and be like, \u2018Oh, my God, you look the best you ever had.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She explained that she tries to tell herself, \u201cIf you could talk to 18-year-old Kristin, and be like, \u2018Look what we\u2019re going to look like when we\u2019re 38!\u2019\u201d she\u2019d be so impressed.<\/p>\n<p>Cavallari added that she needed to \u201cjust stop\u201d being so down on herself, telling <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/kristin-cavallari-explains-podcast-break-and-deleting-tiktok\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">her podcast listeners<\/a> to give themselves grace, too.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou never know how someone is thinking and feeling,\u201d she said, making it clear she does know what she looks like and how fit she is.<\/p>\n<p>Cavallari, however, said it\u2019s not the mirror that is deceiving her, it\u2019s her mind. \u201cIt\u2019s this negative loop in my head though that will creep in sometimes,\u201d she revealed.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/kristin-cavallaris-sons-share-opinions-on-her-dating-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Hills<\/em> alum<\/a> explained that because of her past negative thoughts continually haunt her, she has shifted her thought process.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat I\u2019ve told myself in the last few years is, \u2018You have your dream body. Like enough already,\u2019\u201d Cavallari said, admitting that body image issues have \u201cbeen a negative loop for me that\u2019s been really hard for me to change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In addition to trying to up her positive self-talk, Cavallari said she has embraced eating clean while allowing herself <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kristin-cavallari-admits-she-was-afraid-of-carrots-while-dieting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">grace when she falters<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI used to eat shitty, and I would beat myself up. I would feel so guilty,\u201d she recalled, noting that she would shame herself which would \u201cmake it worse.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After welcoming her three children, Cavallari said she \u201cdeveloped a real sense of freedom around food\u201d and learned that if she has an off day with food to just \u201cmove on from it.\u201d (Cavallari shares sons Camden, 13, and Jaxon, 11, and daughter Saylor, 9, with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/kristin-cavallari-jay-cutlers-ups-and-downs-through-the-years\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ex-husband <strong>Jay Cutler<\/strong><\/a>.)<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kaitlyn-bristowe-talks-body-dysmorphia-while-sharing-bikini-pic\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-source=\"01\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Kaitlyn-Bristowe-Posts-Bikini-Pic-While-Sharing-She-Has-Body-Dysmorphia-3.jpg?crop=0px%2C290px%2C1373px%2C775px&amp;resize=400%2C225&amp;quality=55&amp;strip=all\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"Kaitlyn Bristowe Posts Bikini Pic While Sharing She Has Body Dysmorphia\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Kaitlyn-Bristowe-Posts-Bikini-Pic-While-Sharing-She-Has-Body-Dysmorphia-3.jpg?quality=70&amp;strip=all\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kaitlyn-bristowe-talks-body-dysmorphia-while-sharing-bikini-pic\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-source=\"01\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Kaitlyn Bristowe Posts Bikini Pic While Sharing She Has Body Dysmorphia<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tCourtesy of Kaitlyn Bristowe\/Instagram Kaitlyn Bristowe knows she has a complicated relationship with her body \u2014 and Instagram. \u201cNot me having body dysmorphia and then posting bikini pics,\u201d the former Bachelorette, 39, captioned Instagram pics from her recent trip to Mexico on Monday, February 17. The post\u2019s first slide featured a mirror selfie Bristowe took [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>She pointed out that it makes life \u201cway more enjoyable\u201d not to harp on so-called bad food choices and just do your best.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy point is, I was so strict with myself and then I would binge eat and eat everything and anything. I was so mad at myself. I never looked that great,\u201d she shared. \u201cWhere now I have a real freedom around food and I\u2019m able to enjoy whatever it is I want to enjoy and then get back to my normal eating routine. I don\u2019t guilt myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cavallari concluded, \u201cI look and feel the best I ever have. I really think there\u2019s something to that.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-body\/news\/kristin-cavallari-details-negative-self-talk-calling-herself-fat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kristin Cavallari is preaching the practice of \u201cself-talk\u201d after struggling with her own negative thoughts regarding body image. \u201cI know for me personally, growing up I always had a really negative loop playing about body image,\u201d Cavallari, 38, said during the Tuesday, November 4, episode of her \u201cLet\u2019s Be Honest\u201d podcast. \u201cI always felt like [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":203243,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-203242","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrity"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203242","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=203242"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203242\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/203243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=203242"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=203242"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=203242"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}