{"id":198772,"date":"2025-10-13T06:51:50","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T06:51:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/13\/why-rhops-ashley-darby-skipped-her-estranged-fathers-funeral\/"},"modified":"2025-10-13T06:51:50","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T06:51:50","slug":"why-rhops-ashley-darby-skipped-her-estranged-fathers-funeral","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entertainment.runfyers.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/13\/why-rhops-ashley-darby-skipped-her-estranged-fathers-funeral\/","title":{"rendered":"Why RHOP&#8217;s Ashley Darby Skipped Her Estranged Father&#8217;s Funeral"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/shows\/the-real-housewives-of-potomac\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Real Housewives of Potomac<\/em><\/a>\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/ashley-darby\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Ashley Darby<\/strong><\/a> revealed that her estranged father has died.<\/p>\n<p>The reality star, 37, shared the news in a series of videos posted to her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/stories\/ashleyboalchdarby\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram Stories<\/a> on Sunday, October 12, explaining why she chose not to attend his funeral, which took place on Sunday.<\/p>\n<p>As Ashley has documented on <em>RHOP<\/em> over the past nine seasons, she was raised solely by her mother,<strong> Sheila Matthews<\/strong>, and didn\u2019t know her father, who she said abandoned her at age 1. She tried to make contact with him <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bravotv.com\/the-real-housewives-of-potomac\/season-4\/episode-14\/videos\/ashley-darby-meets-her-father\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">during a season 4 episode<\/a>, but he refused to meet with her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLast week, while I was in New York \u2026 my mom informed me my father had passed away,\u201d Ashley said in the first of four videos posted Sunday.<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/rhops-ashley-darby-mocks-wendy-osefos-felony-fraud-arrest\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"00\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/rhops-ashley-darby-mocks-wendy-osefos-felony-fraud-arrest\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"00\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">&#8216;RHOP&#8217; Star Ashley Darby Mocks Costar Wendy Osefo\u2019s Felony Fraud Arrest<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThe Real Housewives of Potomac\u2018s Ashley Darby reportedly took aim at costar Wendy Osefo following her felony fraud arrest. \u201cWe\u2019re making melodies, not felonies, if you know what I mean,\u201d Darby, 37, said while performing at Mr. Henry\u2019s in Washington, D.C., on Friday, October 10. \u201cI\u2019m just throwing it out there,\u201d she reportedly continued, per [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cToday was his funeral and I contemplated going, almost to have my own sense of closure, but I\u2019ve been traveling so much and I really wanted to be with my own kids this weekend,\u201d said Ashley, who shares sons Dean, 6, and Dylan, 4, with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/rhops-ashley-michael-darbys-timeline-prenup-cheating-scandals\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ex-husband <strong>Michael Darby<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy rationale was, why would I want to take time away from my own kids for someone who never made time for me?\u201d Ashley continued. \u201cI found out that I have siblings. All of the things I had no idea about my father, I learned about in his obituary. I learned he liked to garden, he taught himself how to play guitar, he was an avid fisherman \u2014 really, so many of the things that I also love to do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ashley went on, \u201cIn the obituary, it said his greatest accomplishment was being a dad to his two sons. It stung a little bit. Whatever. It\u2019s interesting how you can mourn and have some sort of grieving \u2014 a unique form of grieving \u2014 for someone you have no relationship with, right? Just blood relations, but no emotional connection. That is so interesting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The <em>RHOP<\/em> original said she had hoped her father might reach out before his death. She said she had learned that he was recently placed in hospice care for cancer, which she said had spread through his whole body.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:177.77777777778%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full credit-added wp-image-4130420\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=720&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all\" alt=\"RHOP's Ashley Darby Explains Why She Skipped Estranged Father's Funeral\" width=\"720\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=100&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 100w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=300&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 300w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=500&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 500w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/RHOP-Ashley-Darby-Explains-Why-She-Skipped-Estranged-Father-Funeral.jpg?w=700&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 700w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) calc(100vw - 6em), (max-width: 1000px) 80vw, 1000px\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of Ashley Darby\/Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cI guess what I ultimately surmise from this experience of my life, at 37, is really learning to close the door,\u201d she said. \u201cA door that was never opened, and will never be opened. I think I\u2019ve always held out some sort of hope that maybe, like, when my dad was in hospice, prior to him passing, maybe he\u2019d have a wave conscience to be like, \u2018Let me at least make amends.\u2019 It\u2019s just so weird.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p>\u201cI really can\u2019t understand how any human being doesn\u2019t want to love their children, or can\u2019t love a child. It is what it is. And life will certainly go on,\u201d Ashley said.<\/p>\n<p>In a subsequent video, Ashley said that before she and her mother got the news of her father\u2019s dead, she had a strange incident at her house.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou guys know I\u2019m very superstitious. The day that I was leaving to go to New York, these black crows were circling my house, and they were all in my yard,\u201d she said. \u201cI took pictures of it because it kind of creeped me out.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script async defer src=\"https:\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/why-rhops-ashley-darby-skipped-her-estranged-fathers-funeral\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Real Housewives of Potomac\u2019s Ashley Darby revealed that her estranged father has died. The reality star, 37, shared the news in a series of videos posted to her Instagram Stories on Sunday, October 12, explaining why she chose not to attend his funeral, which took place on Sunday. 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