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\n Related: <\/span>\u2018Bachelor\u2019 and \u2018Bachelorette\u2019 Virgins Through the Years<\/span><\/a>
\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n\t\t\tVirgins are few and far between in Bachelor Nation. Ashley Iaconetti, Sean Lowe, Colton Underwood and Becca Tilley are just a few of the cast members who famously spoke out on TV about holding onto their V-cards. \u201cI feel like people think I\u2019m less of a man because of that. And that\u2019s the hardest thing [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
All 10 episodes of Are You My First?<\/em> are currently streaming on Hulu. Keep reading for Colton and Kaitlyn\u2019s behind-the-scenes scoop on the biggest moments from the season:\n<\/p>\nMike P.\u2019s Fate<\/h3>\n\n![\"Mike](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Mike-ARE-YOU-MY-FIRST.jpg?w=1000&quality=78&strip=all\")
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\n Mike<\/span> Disney\/Jeff Daly<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nKaitlyn and Colton aren\u2019t the only recognizable faces from Bachelor Nation on Are You My First?<\/em> Mike Planeta<\/strong><\/a>, who appeared on Katie Thurston<\/strong><\/a>\u2019s season 17 of The Bachelorette<\/em>, shook things up with his arrival. And while he formed a connection with contestant Carissa<\/strong>, the men opted to send her home \u2014 seemingly because they were jealous of the attention the Bachelorette<\/em> alum received.<\/p>\n\u201cWe felt in the moment that was an immature response to a situation that was not in their control,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>. \u201cAnd that is the whole point of this \u2014 to see how they react, their maturity level. The women, I know, voiced that it seemed petty. You sort of see them shake in their boots when he walks up that beach, immediately you see the insecurity, the nervousness of, like, \u2018What is walking in here now?\u2019 I like that in a show because it allows the women to see that. And then vice versa, too.\u201d<\/p>\nWhile Kaitlyn hopes that Mike P. and Carissa could connect outside of the show, there has been no update on any potential romance.<\/p>\n
Noah\u2019s Friendzones<\/h3>\n
Contestant Noah<\/strong> explored connections with Madi, Katya <\/strong>and Brooklyn<\/strong>. While he would come on strong and seem invested, he would then decide they might be better off as friends.<\/p>\n\u201cHe\u2019s one of the guys, in my opinion, who was just so scared. Not that it was a game that he was playing, but he was playing scared,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cHe did it wrong. I don\u2019t think he was being true to himself. I really don\u2019t. I think he\u2019s afraid.\u201d<\/p>\n
Colton adds that he couldn\u2019t let his guard down in front of the cameras. \u201cI think he was in his head,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n
FBoy Virgin Godwin<\/h3>\n
There was a love triangle between Godwin, Deya <\/strong>and Jade<\/strong> (which turned into a rectangle when Ty<\/strong> got involved), and in a particularly cringe moment, Godwin brought up Jade on a date with Deya.<\/p>\nKaitlyn tells Us that she actually had sympathy for Godwin at that moment \u2014 to a point. \u201cI\u2019ve done that before!\u201d she says. \u201cI don\u2019t remember who [on The Bachelorette]. It was early. \u2026 There\u2019s nerves, and you are meeting so many different women, but at the same time, like, don\u2019t do that. Godwin does have that aura about him that is kind of like an FBoy, which for a version that\u2019s a very interesting dynamic.\u201d<\/p>\n
Colton acknowledges Godwin\u2019s confidence, with Kaitlyn hinting he could be the one lying about being a virgin.<\/p>\n
\u201cOn his journey, I watched him put his foot in his mouth a few times, and sort of have to backpedal and figure it out and read body language,\u201d Colton says. \u201cHe was in the conversation. He was present. I remember the first conversation he had with Jade, where he was talking about, \u2018I want my queen to support the king,\u2019 and gender roles. And like, obviously, I think he sensed in that conversation how uncomfortable she was.\u201d<\/p>\n
Farha on OnlyFans<\/h3>\n\n![\"Farha](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Farha-ARE-YOU-MY-FIRST.jpg?w=1000&quality=70&strip=all\")
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\n Farha<\/span> Disney\/Ricky Middlesworth<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nFarha<\/strong>\u2019s arrival sparked an interesting discussion about porn within the virgin community, with the contestant revealing she has an OnlyFans<\/a> career.<\/p>\n\u201c[I thought it was] chef\u2019s kiss,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>, adding that he\u2019s \u201cvery proud of the network\u201d for featuring Farha.<\/p>\n\u201cI think we should embrace it,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cI\u2019m obviously all about supporting people in whatever decision they make in life works for them and Farha is just one of those. She\u2019s making that money, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mike P.\u2019s Fate<\/h3>\n\n<\/div>
\n Mike<\/span> Disney\/Jeff Daly<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nKaitlyn and Colton aren\u2019t the only recognizable faces from Bachelor Nation on Are You My First?<\/em> Mike Planeta<\/strong><\/a>, who appeared on Katie Thurston<\/strong><\/a>\u2019s season 17 of The Bachelorette<\/em>, shook things up with his arrival. And while he formed a connection with contestant Carissa<\/strong>, the men opted to send her home \u2014 seemingly because they were jealous of the attention the Bachelorette<\/em> alum received.<\/p>\n\u201cWe felt in the moment that was an immature response to a situation that was not in their control,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>. \u201cAnd that is the whole point of this \u2014 to see how they react, their maturity level. The women, I know, voiced that it seemed petty. You sort of see them shake in their boots when he walks up that beach, immediately you see the insecurity, the nervousness of, like, \u2018What is walking in here now?\u2019 I like that in a show because it allows the women to see that. And then vice versa, too.\u201d<\/p>\nWhile Kaitlyn hopes that Mike P. and Carissa could connect outside of the show, there has been no update on any potential romance.<\/p>\n
Noah\u2019s Friendzones<\/h3>\n
Contestant Noah<\/strong> explored connections with Madi, Katya <\/strong>and Brooklyn<\/strong>. While he would come on strong and seem invested, he would then decide they might be better off as friends.<\/p>\n\u201cHe\u2019s one of the guys, in my opinion, who was just so scared. Not that it was a game that he was playing, but he was playing scared,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cHe did it wrong. I don\u2019t think he was being true to himself. I really don\u2019t. I think he\u2019s afraid.\u201d<\/p>\n
Colton adds that he couldn\u2019t let his guard down in front of the cameras. \u201cI think he was in his head,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n
FBoy Virgin Godwin<\/h3>\n
There was a love triangle between Godwin, Deya <\/strong>and Jade<\/strong> (which turned into a rectangle when Ty<\/strong> got involved), and in a particularly cringe moment, Godwin brought up Jade on a date with Deya.<\/p>\nKaitlyn tells Us that she actually had sympathy for Godwin at that moment \u2014 to a point. \u201cI\u2019ve done that before!\u201d she says. \u201cI don\u2019t remember who [on The Bachelorette]. It was early. \u2026 There\u2019s nerves, and you are meeting so many different women, but at the same time, like, don\u2019t do that. Godwin does have that aura about him that is kind of like an FBoy, which for a version that\u2019s a very interesting dynamic.\u201d<\/p>\n
Colton acknowledges Godwin\u2019s confidence, with Kaitlyn hinting he could be the one lying about being a virgin.<\/p>\n
\u201cOn his journey, I watched him put his foot in his mouth a few times, and sort of have to backpedal and figure it out and read body language,\u201d Colton says. \u201cHe was in the conversation. He was present. I remember the first conversation he had with Jade, where he was talking about, \u2018I want my queen to support the king,\u2019 and gender roles. And like, obviously, I think he sensed in that conversation how uncomfortable she was.\u201d<\/p>\n
Farha on OnlyFans<\/h3>\n\n<\/div>
\n Farha<\/span> Disney\/Ricky Middlesworth<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nFarha<\/strong>\u2019s arrival sparked an interesting discussion about porn within the virgin community, with the contestant revealing she has an OnlyFans<\/a> career.<\/p>\n\u201c[I thought it was] chef\u2019s kiss,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>, adding that he\u2019s \u201cvery proud of the network\u201d for featuring Farha.<\/p>\n\u201cI think we should embrace it,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cI\u2019m obviously all about supporting people in whatever decision they make in life works for them and Farha is just one of those. She\u2019s making that money, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n
<\/div>\n Mike<\/span> Disney\/Jeff Daly<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
Kaitlyn and Colton aren\u2019t the only recognizable faces from Bachelor Nation on Are You My First?<\/em> Mike Planeta<\/strong><\/a>, who appeared on Katie Thurston<\/strong><\/a>\u2019s season 17 of The Bachelorette<\/em>, shook things up with his arrival. And while he formed a connection with contestant Carissa<\/strong>, the men opted to send her home \u2014 seemingly because they were jealous of the attention the Bachelorette<\/em> alum received.<\/p>\n \u201cWe felt in the moment that was an immature response to a situation that was not in their control,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>. \u201cAnd that is the whole point of this \u2014 to see how they react, their maturity level. The women, I know, voiced that it seemed petty. You sort of see them shake in their boots when he walks up that beach, immediately you see the insecurity, the nervousness of, like, \u2018What is walking in here now?\u2019 I like that in a show because it allows the women to see that. And then vice versa, too.\u201d<\/p>\n While Kaitlyn hopes that Mike P. and Carissa could connect outside of the show, there has been no update on any potential romance.<\/p>\n Contestant Noah<\/strong> explored connections with Madi, Katya <\/strong>and Brooklyn<\/strong>. While he would come on strong and seem invested, he would then decide they might be better off as friends.<\/p>\n \u201cHe\u2019s one of the guys, in my opinion, who was just so scared. Not that it was a game that he was playing, but he was playing scared,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cHe did it wrong. I don\u2019t think he was being true to himself. I really don\u2019t. I think he\u2019s afraid.\u201d<\/p>\n Colton adds that he couldn\u2019t let his guard down in front of the cameras. \u201cI think he was in his head,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n There was a love triangle between Godwin, Deya <\/strong>and Jade<\/strong> (which turned into a rectangle when Ty<\/strong> got involved), and in a particularly cringe moment, Godwin brought up Jade on a date with Deya.<\/p>\n Kaitlyn tells Us that she actually had sympathy for Godwin at that moment \u2014 to a point. \u201cI\u2019ve done that before!\u201d she says. \u201cI don\u2019t remember who [on The Bachelorette]. It was early. \u2026 There\u2019s nerves, and you are meeting so many different women, but at the same time, like, don\u2019t do that. Godwin does have that aura about him that is kind of like an FBoy, which for a version that\u2019s a very interesting dynamic.\u201d<\/p>\n Colton acknowledges Godwin\u2019s confidence, with Kaitlyn hinting he could be the one lying about being a virgin.<\/p>\n \u201cOn his journey, I watched him put his foot in his mouth a few times, and sort of have to backpedal and figure it out and read body language,\u201d Colton says. \u201cHe was in the conversation. He was present. I remember the first conversation he had with Jade, where he was talking about, \u2018I want my queen to support the king,\u2019 and gender roles. And like, obviously, I think he sensed in that conversation how uncomfortable she was.\u201d<\/p>\n Farha<\/strong>\u2019s arrival sparked an interesting discussion about porn within the virgin community, with the contestant revealing she has an OnlyFans<\/a> career.<\/p>\n \u201c[I thought it was] chef\u2019s kiss,\u201d Colton tells Us<\/em>, adding that he\u2019s \u201cvery proud of the network\u201d for featuring Farha.<\/p>\n \u201cI think we should embrace it,\u201d Kaitlyn says. \u201cI\u2019m obviously all about supporting people in whatever decision they make in life works for them and Farha is just one of those. She\u2019s making that money, honey.\u201d<\/p>\nNoah\u2019s Friendzones<\/h3>\n
FBoy Virgin Godwin<\/h3>\n
Farha on OnlyFans<\/h3>\n
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\n Farha<\/span> Disney\/Ricky Middlesworth<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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