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The irony? Raquel Leviss<\/strong><\/a> offered Ariana Madix<\/strong><\/a> advice about her sex life \u2014 while secretly having an affair with Tom Sandoval<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n In a trailer for the next episode of Vanderpump Rules<\/em><\/a>, which will air on Wednesday, May 10, Tom, 40, calls out the issues in his relationship with Ariana<\/a>, 37.<\/p>\n \u201cI just want us to be f\u2014king better. I want us to be more intimate,\u201d he tells his now-ex-girlfriend, who counters, \u201cI cannot have sex with somebody who feels like a stranger.\u201d<\/p>\n During a separate conversation with Raquel, 28, Ariana admits there has been distance<\/a> between her and Tom lately. \u201cWhen you come home after working all night and you think you are just going to whip your d\u2014k out and I will be like, \u2018Yeah lets f\u2014k.\u2019 That is never going to happen,\u201d the Florida native explains. \u201cWe have to spend time together.\u201d<\/p>\n The former beauty pageant queen, for her part, offers her opinion as an outsider<\/a>, adding, \u201cI feel like in a relationship, you should want to have sex.\u201d<\/p>\n Months after Bravo filmed Ariana and Raquel\u2019s candid conversation<\/a>, Us Weekly<\/em> confirmed that the Fancy AF Cocktails<\/em> coauthor called it quits with Tom amid his infidelity<\/a>.<\/p>\n In response to the drama, the California native issued a public apology to Ariana<\/a>. \u201cI want to apologize for my actions and my choices foremost to Ariana, and to my friends and the fans so invested in our relationships. There is no excuse, I am not a victim and I must own my actions and I deeply regret hurting Ariana,\u201d she wrote via Instagram that same month.<\/p>\n The TomTom co-owner, for his part, argued that his breakup with Ariana was a long time coming<\/a>. \u201cLike many relationships, it felt like it became more of like a best friends, family [thing] \u2014 sometimes roommates,\u201d he said on an episode of the \u201cHowie Mandel Does Stuff\u201d podcast in April. \u201cThere were a lot of ways where the relationship was just lacking the intimacy, the connection. We would travel more by ourselves than we would together. I would go to weddings by myself.\u201d<\/p>\n He added: \u201cAs I turned 40, I started to look at my life and it looked very bleak. I started to lose my optimism in life and my drive. I started to feel trapped. I started thinking like, \u2018I don\u2019t need this house, I don\u2019t need this s\u2013t, but I feel like I need to make a change to feel motivated, to feel optimistic again.’\u201d<\/p>\n Tom\u2019s costars, meanwhile, hinted that Vanderpump Rules<\/em> viewers were in for some shocking footage in the aftermath<\/a> of the affair.<\/p>\n \u201cYou guys are going to die. \u2026 There is one conversation in the finale episode, and [Raquel] is sick,\u201d Lala Kent<\/strong><\/a> told Andy Cohen<\/strong><\/a> on an April episode of Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen<\/em>, to which the host, 54, added, \u201cI asked Raquel about it during our [reunion] one-on-one, about how she could look in [Ariana\u2019s] eyes and have that conversation.\u201d<\/p>\n Lisa Vanderpump<\/strong><\/a> subsequently took to Twitter to weigh in<\/a>, writing, \u201cYep @Andy #wwhl I agree I thought and expressed at reunion one of the most astounding bits of film I\u2019ve seen.\u201d<\/p>\n In another episode of the Bravo series, which aired on Wednesday, May 3, Ariana came to Raquel\u2019s defense as rumors swirled<\/a> about the model and Tom\u2019s close connection.<\/p>\n \u201cRaquel is my friend. She is someone that is kind and sweet and loyal and just a delight since the day I met her,\u201d Ariana told Katie Maloney<\/strong><\/a>. \u201cObviously I love Raquel dearly and she\u2019s one of my closest friends. I not only trust and love her \u2014 I trust and love my boyfriend.\u201d<\/p>\n Katie, 36, however, warned her business partner to be careful<\/a> with Raquel. \u201cWell, I hope she is a good friend to you. I just feel like this is a personality thing, this is a character thing and this is an integrity thing,\u201d she shared. \u201cI have a hard time believing that she is a s\u2014tty person to some people and a good friend to others.\u201d<\/p>\n