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It\u2019s the end of an era. In January, Ben Affleck<\/strong><\/a> and second wife Jennifer Lopez<\/strong> reached a divorce settlement<\/a>, with reports revealing they agreed to walk away from their legal union with what they\u2019ve individually acquired during the two-year marriage On February 21 \u2014 six months after J. Lo filed for divorce \u2014 their split was finalized.<\/p>\n More change is likely coming for Ben, Life & Style<\/em> has learned his first wife Jennifer Garner<\/strong><\/a> \u2014 an unwavering if unlikely source of support during the Oscar winner\u2019s breakup from J. Lo, which allegedly saw her playing \u201cmediator\u201d to the pair \u2013 is reconsidering her own relationship with him nearly a decade after they announced their separation. It\u2019s been almost seven years since Jen started dating business investor John Miller<\/strong><\/a> and she\u2019s been increasingly torn about what comes next, a source exclusively tells Life & Style<\/em>, explaining, \u201cJen\u2019s feeling the pressure to choose between John and Ben.\u201d\n<\/p>\n A February 14 report from Daily Mail<\/em> claimed John\u2019s been hoping Jen will take a \u201cstep back\u201d from Ben now that the actor or director\u2019s second divorce is over. John gets it \u2014 he, too, is co-parenting with a former spouse \u2014 but even though Jen and Ben, both 52, need to communicate as they raise their kids, Violet Affleck<\/strong>, 19, Seraphina \u201cFin\u201d Affleck, 16, and Samuel Affleck, 13, \u201cJohn wants Jen for himself,\u201d an insider told the outlet, adding, \u201cJohn is trying to deal with Ben<\/a> and Jen\u2019s relationship by mostly staying quiet, but it\u2019s very hard to do that.\u201d<\/p>\nJennifer Garner\u2019s Relationship With John Miller and Ben Affleck<\/h2>\n