<\/noscript>Kris Foster and Jeymi Noguera genuinely love each other. But their relationship red flags did not evaporate when they met, or when they married.<\/p>\n
Kris ghosted Jeymi before, when they were communicating remotely. Meanwhile, she had found Jeymi to be \u201cclingy\u201d at times.<\/p>\n
Meeting in person for the first time. Marrying was a profoundly happy moment. But those past troubles were just foreshadowing<\/em>.<\/p>\nAs viewers watched on Season 4, Episode 12, Kris opened up to her mother about her marital problems.<\/p>\n
By this point, she had been back home in Alabama for five months. That\u2019s about five times as long as she and Jeymi spent together after marrying, if we recall correctly.<\/p>\n
Sure, \u201ctwo weeks\u201d was probably never realistic considering what Kris had to get done. But after five months, it cannot have only been work. She was there because she and Jeymi were having issues<\/em>.<\/p>\nIn the words of Kris\u2019 mother, both of them are \u201cdrama queens.\u201d She wasn\u2019t so sure if their personalities make for a good marriage.<\/p>\n
But what was the actual underlying issue?<\/p>\n
According to Kris, it was really about money. Kris was working hard to make money, taking odd jobs in Alabama for extra cash. Extra cash that she was sending to Jeymi.<\/p>\nAnd because of that, Kris felt like Jeymi was not appreciating her at all.<\/p>\n
See, Jeymi was not working. As they both mentioned, Jeymi had taken time off from work when Kris first moved there. When work demanded that she return immediately, Jeymi quit \u2014 with Kris\u2019 blessing.<\/p>\n
At the time, they had an understanding that Jeymi would find new work, and Kris would cover a lot of expenses in the mean time. While Kris did pay a lot of bills (including the rent for three months after she returned to Alabama), Jeymi\u2019s lack of progress with the job seemed to slow Kris\u2019 financial contributions.<\/p>\nClearly, there is a lot of resentment going on. Jeymi resents Kris\u2019 time away, Kris resents Jeymi\u2019s dependence on her.<\/p>\n
(And, obviously, this is also contributing to a breakdown of communication within the marriage much more than the distance alone is)<\/p>\n
Kris\u2019 mother observed that she was acting like a \u201csugar mama\u201d with Jeymi as her \u201ckept woman.\u201d<\/p>\nOne moment that really stuck with Kris was how Jeymi had become angry after she had sent her $1,000.<\/p>\n
Now, obviously, that is not enough to pay the bills for an entire month. It likely would not even cover a month\u2019s rent. <\/p>\n
But Kris felt used and frustrated that her wife was so financially and emotionally dependent on her. As far as Kris was concerned, staying in Alabama to work was the best option.<\/p>\nMeanwhile, Jeymi felt totally abandoned by her wife.<\/p>\n
It wasn\u2019t just that Kris was gone. Kris was working and sending her money \u2014 not as much as before, but some.<\/p>\n
She also did not always respond to messages, was not always available to take calls. And when they did speak, they would too frequently argue.<\/p>\nWhen Jeymi brought her friend, Alex, up to speed, he could not resist a \u201ctold you so.\u201d And, to be fair, he absolutely did tell her so.<\/p>\n
Jeymi did offer some nuance in her account. After all, Kris could not work in Colombia, but she could work in Alabama.<\/p>\n
But the plan had previously been that she and Jeymi would open a business together. A risky investment? Maybe. But they could earn money together.<\/p>\nWe don\u2019t know how viable an American-Venezuelan food truck would be in Bogota, Colombia. But it would be their project.<\/p>\n
And Jeymi had not had success with her job search.<\/p>\n
That was tragically not a surprise. She is of Venezuelan origins, which apparently leads to a lot of employers not even considering her.<\/p>\nJeymi acknowledged that her choices \u2014 quitting her old job, unilaterally picking out a more expensive apartment \u2014 had played a role in their financial situation.<\/p>\n
But she just wanted her wife to come back home to her.<\/p>\n
The financial issues, the disagreements, were something that they could handle together. If <\/em>they ever saw each other again.<\/p>\nSo, who was right? We have seen 90 Day Fiance couples with one clear villain and a partner who is not. And we have also seen couples where they are both villains, a toxic couple who could never be happy together.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s not these two. Neither Kris nor Jeymi has everything right, or everything wrong. They are two people who love each other, and have different priorities.<\/p>\n
You know who\u2019s really right? Kris\u2019 mom. Like her, we\u2019re not sure if two people this prone to drama should really be married. Love by itself is not enough.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n
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