Debbie is not older than his dad<\/a>. <\/p>\nBut the bad news, for Oussama, is that Debbie is now looking to take the next step. She wants to make plans for the future.<\/p>\n
Oussama is not ready. He grows agitated, snapping at Debbie, and calling her crazy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/noscript>In the 90 Day Fiance: the Other Way<\/em> Season 4, Episode 12 sneak peek that you can watch below, Debbie Aguero sits with Oussama. <\/p>\nThe two artists are painting, out in a field, seemingly on his family\u2019s farm. However, Debbie wants to talk about plans for the future.<\/p>\n
Oussama very emphatically does not.<\/p>\nOussama doesn\u2019t simply ask if they can enjoy the moment for now and talk about plans later.<\/p>\n
Instead, he tells Debbie, in no uncertain terms, that they are there for two reasons:<\/p>\n
\u201cTo ride the donkey and to paint,\u201d he insists. Nothing else.<\/p>\nOussama goes on to demand that they not \u201ctalk about the plans.\u201d<\/p>\n
He tells Debbie that she always, always wants to make plans.<\/p>\n
His hope is that, this time, they can just enjoy painting together. That would make him feel more comfortable.<\/p>\nDebbie feels like she is in limbo right now. <\/p>\n
She doesn\u2019t really have a long-term home in Morocco, despite moving there.<\/p>\n
Obviously, she wants to feel security. And, given that Oussama has given her reasons to doubt his intentions, she wants assurance that they are on the same page.<\/p>\nWell, she\u2019s not getting it.<\/p>\n
Oussama wants to paint, but it\u2019s about more than that.<\/p>\n
He has been avoiding a serious conversation for a while now. And he has no intention of stopping. Debbie, on the other hand, cannot keep waiting.<\/p>\n\u201cWhen I talk about the future, and needing security,\u201d Debbie counters calmly. She has the tone of a grandmother trying to soothe a moody grandchild. \u201cYou always kind of say, \u2018we\u2019ll talk about it later.’\u201d<\/p>\n
Debbie emphasizes: \u201cI don\u2019t want to push you at all. But I feel I need to make plans.\u201d<\/p>\n
Though Oussama is clearly feeling impatient and frustrated, she adds: \u201cLike, can we look at apartments online tonight?\u201d<\/p>\n\u201cMaybe we can,\u201d Oussama replies, while not looking at her.<\/p>\n
His tone suggests that he is saying this to shut her up. He sounds angry and annoyed, not sincere.<\/p>\n
And, as you can see below, when Oussama tells Debbie his <\/em>\u201cplans,\u201d it\u2019s clear that he has zero interest in Debbie\u2019s apartment search.<\/p>\nDebbie cannot help but remark that she is accustomed to having \u201cdeep\u201d and pleasant conversations with Oussama.<\/p>\n
Of course, those were over text message.<\/p>\n
Debbie is \u201cgetting nothing, man.\u201d She wonders if she should get out her phone to text him to have another honest conversation.<\/p>\nOussama then accused Debbie of not being patient with him.<\/p>\n
In his mind, she is rushing to \u201cdo everything\u201d now. They are clearly moving at very different paces \u2014 or wanting to, anyway.<\/p>\n
Debbie explains that she \u201cjust wanted you to sketch an outline of our future.\u201d Oussama still feels like that would be premature.<\/p>\n\u201cAre you crazy?\u201d Oussama then asks.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou are sick,\u201d he accuses.<\/p>\n
Oussama speculates that Debbie has \u201clike, mental illness or something.\u201d Absolutely outrageous.<\/p>\nA deeply hurt Debbie reacts with understandable shock, accusing Oussama of acting \u201ccold-blooded right now.\u201d<\/p>\n
Oussama replies by saying that this is making him angry, \u201cand I am not angry in my nature.\u201d<\/p>\n
Debbie begins to talk about how he is making her feel, and how this is seeming to confirm her kids\u2019 doubts about him.<\/p>\n\n\n
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