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Rachel Lindsay<\/strong><\/a> is reflecting on her marriage with estranged husband Bryan Abasolo<\/strong><\/a> and admitted that she \u201csaw signs\u201d of worry before they tied the knot in 2019.<\/p>\n \u201cI would probably say maybe I saw signs before the marriage,\u201d Rachel, 39, said during the Tuesday, December 3, episode of The View<\/em>. \u201cBut as women, we\u2019re fixers and we think we can figure it out. They\u2019re a challenge to us. But eventually, I saw it more. I would say, within two years.\u201d<\/p>\n Earlier in the segment, Rachel shared that everything isn\u2019t always as it seems in the public eye and even the happiest-looking couples face hardships in private.<\/p>\n \u201cWe were looked at as one of the more successful relationships that came from [The Bachelorette<\/em><\/a>],\u201d Rachel said during a different part of the conversation. \u201cAnywhere I went, people would ask me about my relationship and how you\u2019re doing. And, you know, when are you having kids and all the things that were wrapped up in that and you feel the public pressure to always let people know that everything is great, even though behind closed doors, that might not be the case. Or that you\u2019re working on it or that you\u2019re having a bad day or whatever it may be.\u201d<\/p>\n Bryan, 44, and Rachel ended season 13 of The Bachelorette<\/em> engaged in 2017 and got married two years later. The couple never publicly aired their marital woes, which is why it came as a shock to fans when Bryan filed for divorce<\/a> on January 2 and released a statement hours later.<\/p>\n \u201cAfter more than 4 years of marriage, Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew. My parents have been married forever and I\u2019m a family man but sometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go,\u201d he wrote via Instagram. \u201cI wanted you to hear it from the source before the blogs start making up their own reality,\u201d he wrote on Instagram. \u201cPlease respect the spaces of our family and friends as we figure out our next steps. Respectfully, Bryan.\u201d<\/p>\n The pair\u2019s separation quickly got tricky as they battled it out over assets in finances because they never signed a prenup.<\/p>\n \u201cRachel is kicking herself for not having a prenup<\/a>. She wanted one, but Bryan pushed the idea away and she let it go,\u201d an insider exclusively told Life & Style<\/em> in June.<\/p>\n The following month, a second source revealed that the chiropractor was \u201cplaying dirty<\/a>\u201d in their divorce.<\/p>\n \u201cThings have gotten ugly. Rachel thinks Bryan is greedy and twisting the facts,\u201d source No. 2 told Life & Style<\/em> at the time.<\/p>\n \u201cShe wants to settle this fair and square, but he\u2019s playing dirty. It\u2019s got her defenses up big-time. But Rachel\u2019s got paperwork to prove what she\u2019s saying is true. She\u2019s a [former] lawyer, after all,\u201d the second insider continued.<\/p>\n Shortly after, Rachel was ordered to pay Bryan $13,000 a month<\/a> in temporary spousal support. Things got worse for Rachel after she was ordered to pay her ex $40,000 from their community property funds, In Touch<\/em><\/a> reported on August 19.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n