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On \u201cBachelor Happy Hour,\u201d<\/a> she spoke about some of the alleged red flags, including Devin\u2019s supposed reluctancy to book flights on their Happy Couple (weekends that ABC allows their engaged duos to spend time together in private) and comments he made about only loving her \u201csome days.\u201d<\/p>\n\u201cNow when I look back on things, I\u2019m like, there were so many key moments I should\u2019ve taken note of and I didn\u2019t,\u201d Jenn said. \u201cThe day after we got engaged, the first thing he asked the producers was, \u2018How long do people stay together?\u2019 I was like, \u2018You\u2019re already anticipating that we\u2019re breaking up?\u2019 \u2026 He never once planned a date night for us. Long distance\u2013wise, we barely talked on the phone. It was weird \u2026 it just felt like something was off.\u201d<\/p>\n
Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> While Devin admitted to being \u201cregretfully late\u201d on AFR<\/em> when it came to cluing in Jenn on his changing feelings, he alleged in his video that he didn\u2019t \u201cpull away\u201d until August, the same month of their breakup. He said he only became distant in late August to try to not lead Jenn on.<\/p>\nHe showed a series of text messages to prove that the twosome were communicating throughout the early summer months, saying that they had their last Happy Couple in July.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt no point did I ever leave her in the dark. \u2026 I just am very confused by how the narrative can be pushed that I was absent from this relationship, even when I was present,\u201d he said as he showed screenshots of their post-Hawaii texts and screenshots of their phone calls in August. \u201cI really find that to be kind of offensive \u2026 especially because I tried so hard in this relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n
The Phone Call Breakup<\/h3>\n\n![\"Jenn](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Jenn-Tran-and-Devin-Strader-Split-Breaking-Down-The-Bachelorette-Couple-Accusations-2.jpg?w=1000&quality=86&strip=all\")
<\/div>DISNEY\/John Fleenor<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nJenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn initially said on AFR<\/em> that their split went down via a 15-minute phone call on August 6. On the \u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d podcast, she explained that he first broke things off the night before the 15-minute phone call \u2014 on a different call that lasted only two minutes \u2014 after watching the August 5 episode of The Bachelorette.<\/p>\n\u201cHe said, \u2018Let\u2019s talk tomorrow. This is a conversation we will have tomorrow at the Happy Couple.\u2019 I was like, \u2018I don\u2019t like what that means, just call me now let\u2019s talk about it. A two-minute phone call, this was that night. He was like, \u2018I don\u2019t feel this anymore, I don\u2019t want to be in this relationship anymore. It\u2019s not working,\u2019\u201d Jenn claimed.<\/p>\n
Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin pretty much admits to dumping Jenn over the phone, but alleged that it was because she wouldn\u2019t let him wait to do it IRL. He also claimed that she was the one to call him.<\/p>\n\u201cThere are multiple different occasions where I do say that I really want to meet up in person,\u201d he said in his video after showing their texts from August 5 and 6. \u201cTo say this, she basically forces it out of me. She says that I called her, which was not the case, at which point I did feel the need that I owed her that conversation. I did try to meet up with her. I did try to go to the Happy Couple, and she did not let me. \u2026 So I didn\u2019t really know what else to do. She kind of forced my hand.\u201d<\/p>\n
The Couples Counseling<\/h3>\n\n![\"Jenn](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Jenn-Tran-and-Devin-Strader-Split-Breaking-Down-The-Bachelorette-Couple-Accusations.jpg?w=1000&quality=86&strip=all\")
<\/div>DISNEY\/John Fleenor<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nJenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn revealed on AFR<\/em> that the twosome tried counseling. On \u201cBachelor Happy Hour,\u201d she said that Devin was the one to suggest therapy.<\/p>\n\u201cHe was holding me and he was like, \u2018It\u2019s fine, I don\u2019t want anything to change. I love you, we\u2019ll work on this, we\u2019ll go to couples counseling. We\u2019ll work on this.\u2019 So I left that weekend feeling pretty hopeful but also, like, defeated and just, like, weird,\u201d Jenn said.<\/p>\n
When she brought this up when they ended things, he allegedly admitted to lying about his intention. \u201cHe was like, \u2018You\u2019re right, I lied, I don\u2019t want to go to couples counseling,\u201d she said. \u201c\u2018I don\u2019t want to work on this.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin said in his video that the twosome \u201cwent to a couple sessions together\u201d in addition to individual therapy.<\/p>\n\u201cI actually scheduled multiple appointments with her. The reason I stopped going to couples counseling is due to the fact that Jenn fired our original therapist without consulting me about it,\u201d he said, showing an alleged message in which Jenn noted that she didn\u2019t like the therapist and apologized for not telling him that she canceled the session. \u201cI only had to find out through an email from our therapist saying that she was sorry things couldn\u2019t work out. I confronted Jenn about this, and she never even gave me an explanation. All she could say was that she didn\u2019t like her and that she wasn\u2019t experienced enough.\u201d<\/p>\n
The Marcus of It All<\/h3>\n
Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn has maintained in both her \u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d and \u201cOff the Vine\u201d<\/a> interviews that she is not interested in revisiting romantic relationships with any of her other contestants, as she really thought Devin was The One.<\/p>\nDevin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin suggested in his video<\/a> (out of nowhere) that he was actually Jenn\u2019s second choice \u2014 despite her opting to propose to him on the show in a franchise first.<\/p>\n\u201cI had to clearly watch myself place second to someone else. \u2026 I wasn\u2019t her first choice,\u201d Devin alleged, saying he learned the extent of her feelings for Marcus Shoberg<\/strong> while watching the show. (Jenn told other men that she loved them, but it happened in episodes that aired after the date of Devin\u2019s apparent breakup phone call.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n\t\t\tRelated: <\/span>Messiest Bachelor Nation Breakups: Andi and Josh, Colton and Cassie, More<\/span><\/a>
\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n\t\t\tNot all Bachelor breakups are created equally. While some Bachelor Nation couples quietly part ways after the final rose \u2014 and a handful of others actually make it down the aisle \u2014 other Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise duos make headlines for weeks following their decision to call it quits. Season 23 Bachelor Colton [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
The Maria of It All<\/h3>\n
Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> One of Jenn\u2019s examples of how she felt disrespected by Devin was his decision to follow Maria Georgas<\/strong><\/a> \u2014 a fellow season 28 Bachelor contestant who many believed would be the Bachelorette \u2014 on Instagram shortly after their split.<\/p>\n\u201cI personally don\u2019t think anything happened with<\/a> Devin and Maria. I think he was being a bit of a jackass and went and followed her for whatever reason,\u201d she said on the \u201cOff the Vine\u201d podcast. \u201cI don\u2019t think anything happened and I never insinuated that. \u2026 That was a hurtful thing for him to do. That was his action and his thing. I don\u2019t think she did anything.\u201d<\/p>\nDevin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin downplayed his actions a bit, but he ultimately admitted that following Maria wasn\u2019t a nice thing to do, as Jenn had already dealt with people comparing her to Maria.<\/p>\n\u201cI did follow her, I think, the week of August 14. I followed a bunch of Bachelor Nation accounts. But, regardless, it was still an ill-advised decision on my part. I shouldn\u2019t be following people that I have no relationship with whatsoever. I don\u2019t know Maria, I\u2019ve never met Maria, I\u2019ve never met up with Maria, and I will never follow Maria. I know I hurt Jenn now,\u201d he said of following Maria after another fight with Jenn. \u201cI\u2019m just here to apologize for that, so I am sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n
Devin\u2019s Demeanor on the Show<\/h3>\n\n![\"Jenn](\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Jenn-Tran-and-Devin-Strader-Split-Breaking-Down-The-Bachelorette-Couple-Accusations-4.jpg?w=1000&quality=86&strip=all\")
<\/div>DISNEY\/John Fleenor<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\nJenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Bachelor Nation was quick to rally around Jenn as Devin appeared nonchalant and even laughed at various points during their AFR<\/em> confrontation, in which Jenn got very emotional. She told Us Weekly<\/em><\/a> on the Dancing With the Stars<\/em> press line that she wasn\u2019t surprised by his actions, as he \u201cacted that way\u201d during their whole relationship.<\/p>\nDevin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin claimed that he and Jenn were on \u201cgood terms\u201d going into AFR<\/em>, so he didn\u2019t understand why things got so hostile so quickly. He showed one message in particular several times that he stated Jenn sent him one week before AFR<\/em>. It read, \u201cI\u2019m not having this argument with you we were on good terms and friends not once did I say anything about agreeing to get back together.\u201d<\/p>\n\u201cWalking onto that stage, I had no idea what was being said prior. \u2026 I was shocked, and had no words at the way that our relationship was being depicted on TV. It was absolutely asinine, and it was really, really disheartening to hear the way Jenn described it, because that wasn\u2019t true,\u201d he claimed. \u201cWe both knew that that wasn\u2019t true, but I didn\u2019t want to fight with her. That wasn\u2019t my intention.\u201d<\/p>\n
The \u2018Ex\u2019 in NYC<\/h3>\n
Jenn\u2019s Side: Footage of Devin with another girl \u2014 allegedly taken in August \u2014 surfaced on social media after the finale aired.<\/p>\n
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\u201cNow when I look back on things, I\u2019m like, there were so many key moments I should\u2019ve taken note of and I didn\u2019t,\u201d Jenn said. \u201cThe day after we got engaged, the first thing he asked the producers was, \u2018How long do people stay together?\u2019 I was like, \u2018You\u2019re already anticipating that we\u2019re breaking up?\u2019 \u2026 He never once planned a date night for us. Long distance\u2013wise, we barely talked on the phone. It was weird \u2026 it just felt like something was off.\u201d<\/p>\n
Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> While Devin admitted to being \u201cregretfully late\u201d on AFR<\/em> when it came to cluing in Jenn on his changing feelings, he alleged in his video that he didn\u2019t \u201cpull away\u201d until August, the same month of their breakup. He said he only became distant in late August to try to not lead Jenn on.<\/p>\n He showed a series of text messages to prove that the twosome were communicating throughout the early summer months, saying that they had their last Happy Couple in July.<\/p>\n \u201cAt no point did I ever leave her in the dark. \u2026 I just am very confused by how the narrative can be pushed that I was absent from this relationship, even when I was present,\u201d he said as he showed screenshots of their post-Hawaii texts and screenshots of their phone calls in August. \u201cI really find that to be kind of offensive \u2026 especially because I tried so hard in this relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn initially said on AFR<\/em> that their split went down via a 15-minute phone call on August 6. On the \u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d podcast, she explained that he first broke things off the night before the 15-minute phone call \u2014 on a different call that lasted only two minutes \u2014 after watching the August 5 episode of The Bachelorette.<\/p>\n \u201cHe said, \u2018Let\u2019s talk tomorrow. This is a conversation we will have tomorrow at the Happy Couple.\u2019 I was like, \u2018I don\u2019t like what that means, just call me now let\u2019s talk about it. A two-minute phone call, this was that night. He was like, \u2018I don\u2019t feel this anymore, I don\u2019t want to be in this relationship anymore. It\u2019s not working,\u2019\u201d Jenn claimed.<\/p>\n Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin pretty much admits to dumping Jenn over the phone, but alleged that it was because she wouldn\u2019t let him wait to do it IRL. He also claimed that she was the one to call him.<\/p>\n \u201cThere are multiple different occasions where I do say that I really want to meet up in person,\u201d he said in his video after showing their texts from August 5 and 6. \u201cTo say this, she basically forces it out of me. She says that I called her, which was not the case, at which point I did feel the need that I owed her that conversation. I did try to meet up with her. I did try to go to the Happy Couple, and she did not let me. \u2026 So I didn\u2019t really know what else to do. She kind of forced my hand.\u201d<\/p>\n Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn revealed on AFR<\/em> that the twosome tried counseling. On \u201cBachelor Happy Hour,\u201d she said that Devin was the one to suggest therapy.<\/p>\n \u201cHe was holding me and he was like, \u2018It\u2019s fine, I don\u2019t want anything to change. I love you, we\u2019ll work on this, we\u2019ll go to couples counseling. We\u2019ll work on this.\u2019 So I left that weekend feeling pretty hopeful but also, like, defeated and just, like, weird,\u201d Jenn said.<\/p>\n When she brought this up when they ended things, he allegedly admitted to lying about his intention. \u201cHe was like, \u2018You\u2019re right, I lied, I don\u2019t want to go to couples counseling,\u201d she said. \u201c\u2018I don\u2019t want to work on this.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin said in his video that the twosome \u201cwent to a couple sessions together\u201d in addition to individual therapy.<\/p>\n \u201cI actually scheduled multiple appointments with her. The reason I stopped going to couples counseling is due to the fact that Jenn fired our original therapist without consulting me about it,\u201d he said, showing an alleged message in which Jenn noted that she didn\u2019t like the therapist and apologized for not telling him that she canceled the session. \u201cI only had to find out through an email from our therapist saying that she was sorry things couldn\u2019t work out. I confronted Jenn about this, and she never even gave me an explanation. All she could say was that she didn\u2019t like her and that she wasn\u2019t experienced enough.\u201d<\/p>\n Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Jenn has maintained in both her \u201cBachelor Happy Hour\u201d and \u201cOff the Vine\u201d<\/a> interviews that she is not interested in revisiting romantic relationships with any of her other contestants, as she really thought Devin was The One.<\/p>\n Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin suggested in his video<\/a> (out of nowhere) that he was actually Jenn\u2019s second choice \u2014 despite her opting to propose to him on the show in a franchise first.<\/p>\n \u201cI had to clearly watch myself place second to someone else. \u2026 I wasn\u2019t her first choice,\u201d Devin alleged, saying he learned the extent of her feelings for Marcus Shoberg<\/strong> while watching the show. (Jenn told other men that she loved them, but it happened in episodes that aired after the date of Devin\u2019s apparent breakup phone call.)<\/p>\n \n\t\t\tNot all Bachelor breakups are created equally. While some Bachelor Nation couples quietly part ways after the final rose \u2014 and a handful of others actually make it down the aisle \u2014 other Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise duos make headlines for weeks following their decision to call it quits. Season 23 Bachelor Colton [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> One of Jenn\u2019s examples of how she felt disrespected by Devin was his decision to follow Maria Georgas<\/strong><\/a> \u2014 a fellow season 28 Bachelor contestant who many believed would be the Bachelorette \u2014 on Instagram shortly after their split.<\/p>\n \u201cI personally don\u2019t think anything happened with<\/a> Devin and Maria. I think he was being a bit of a jackass and went and followed her for whatever reason,\u201d she said on the \u201cOff the Vine\u201d podcast. \u201cI don\u2019t think anything happened and I never insinuated that. \u2026 That was a hurtful thing for him to do. That was his action and his thing. I don\u2019t think she did anything.\u201d<\/p>\n Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin downplayed his actions a bit, but he ultimately admitted that following Maria wasn\u2019t a nice thing to do, as Jenn had already dealt with people comparing her to Maria.<\/p>\n \u201cI did follow her, I think, the week of August 14. I followed a bunch of Bachelor Nation accounts. But, regardless, it was still an ill-advised decision on my part. I shouldn\u2019t be following people that I have no relationship with whatsoever. I don\u2019t know Maria, I\u2019ve never met Maria, I\u2019ve never met up with Maria, and I will never follow Maria. I know I hurt Jenn now,\u201d he said of following Maria after another fight with Jenn. \u201cI\u2019m just here to apologize for that, so I am sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n Jenn\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Bachelor Nation was quick to rally around Jenn as Devin appeared nonchalant and even laughed at various points during their AFR<\/em> confrontation, in which Jenn got very emotional. She told Us Weekly<\/em><\/a> on the Dancing With the Stars<\/em> press line that she wasn\u2019t surprised by his actions, as he \u201cacted that way\u201d during their whole relationship.<\/p>\n Devin\u2019s Side:<\/strong> Devin claimed that he and Jenn were on \u201cgood terms\u201d going into AFR<\/em>, so he didn\u2019t understand why things got so hostile so quickly. He showed one message in particular several times that he stated Jenn sent him one week before AFR<\/em>. It read, \u201cI\u2019m not having this argument with you we were on good terms and friends not once did I say anything about agreeing to get back together.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWalking onto that stage, I had no idea what was being said prior. \u2026 I was shocked, and had no words at the way that our relationship was being depicted on TV. It was absolutely asinine, and it was really, really disheartening to hear the way Jenn described it, because that wasn\u2019t true,\u201d he claimed. \u201cWe both knew that that wasn\u2019t true, but I didn\u2019t want to fight with her. That wasn\u2019t my intention.\u201d<\/p>\n Jenn\u2019s Side: Footage of Devin with another girl \u2014 allegedly taken in August \u2014 surfaced on social media after the finale aired.<\/p>\nThe Phone Call Breakup<\/h3>\n
<\/div>The Couples Counseling<\/h3>\n
<\/div>The Marcus of It All<\/h3>\n
\n\t\t\tRelated: <\/span>Messiest Bachelor Nation Breakups: Andi and Josh, Colton and Cassie, More<\/span><\/a>
\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\nThe Maria of It All<\/h3>\n
Devin\u2019s Demeanor on the Show<\/h3>\n
<\/div>The \u2018Ex\u2019 in NYC<\/h3>\n