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Different house, same issues. A source exclusively reveals that Ryan Gosling <\/strong><\/a>and Eva Mendes<\/strong><\/a> are at odds, and the friction has grown since trading their L.A. address for sleepy Montecito, California.<\/p>\n \u201cIt was Eva who pushed for the move,\u201d says the source. \u201cShe wanted to raise [daughters Esmeralda, 9, and Amada, 8] outside of Los Angeles, and Ryan agreed. The problem is, he\u2019s restless and needs the action of a big city.\u201d<\/p>\n Montecito has its share of celebs, but they don\u2019t make up for the unique friend group Ryan enjoyed in L.A. The Hitch<\/em> actress, 50, sacrificed her career to raise her family<\/a>, and has no regrets.<\/p>\n \u201cIt was the easiest decision I\u2019ve ever made,\u201d she\u2019s said. But Ryan, 43, has remained an active A-lister, going on location to star in awards-bait films and showing up solo to high-profile events.<\/p>\n \u201cRyan loves adventure,\u201d says the source, \u201cand Eva has become an extremely private, paranoid person. They really are opposites<\/a> in almost every way.\u201d<\/p>\n The source suggests that Ryan hasn\u2019t adjusted to the quiet life \u2014 and won\u2019t anytime soon, having recently lured the family to London, where he\u2019s filming Project Hail Mary<\/em>. \u201cThe family has spent hardly any time in Montecito this summer,\u201d adds the source. \u201cThat works well for Ryan, but it hasn\u2019t been great for putting down roots. Eva has more control in the relationship, and the kids are the thing keeping them together.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n