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Bryan Abasolo<\/strong><\/a> and Rachel Lindsay<\/strong><\/a>\u2019s divorce may have shocked Bachelor Nation, but the chiropractor claims that their relationship had missing pieces to their love story. The wedge got so thick between them that they started sleeping in separate beds.<\/p>\n \u201cWe didn\u2019t spend enough time with each other. I mean, in my estimation, we saw what the other person was doing in the relationship, mainly on Instagram, although we lived in the same house,\u201d Bryan, 39, told divorce coach Rene Garcia<\/strong> in a YouTube video posted on Saturday, July 20. \u201cI was thinking about divorce because I had already asked for a separation a few months back. I was sleeping in a different bedroom. We were already going to marriage counseling.\u201d<\/p>\n The former couple kept their relationship semi-out of the spotlight after fans watched them get engaged during season 13 of The Bachelorette<\/em> in 2017. Bryan and Rachel, 44, enjoyed more than four years of marriage together before he filed for divorce in January.<\/p>\n Bryan announced their separation via Instagram the same day as he filed the court documents, writing, \u201cAfter more than 4 years of marriage, Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew, My parents have been married forever and I\u2019m a family man but sometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go.\u201d<\/p>\n The divorce quickly turned ugly once it came down to finances as they didn\u2019t sign a prenup<\/a> before or after their union in holy matrimony.<\/p>\n \u201cA lot of people are like, \u2018You\u2019re a lawyer. \u2026 Do you have a prenup?\u2019 I don\u2019t,\u201d Rachel said on the \u201cHidden Gems with Natasha Parker\u201d podcast on June 6. \u201cThe reason I didn\u2019t is because the place I\u2019m in now \u2026 financially \u2026 is totally different than when I got married. We were more leveled, and I wasn\u2019t in California.\u201d<\/p>\n The former attorney also noted that they \u201cweren\u2019t on the same page\u201d about a prenup and she \u201cdidn\u2019t want it to be a bigger issue.\u201d<\/p>\n Days after Rachel\u2019s statement, a source exclusively told Life & Style<\/em> that The Bachelor<\/em> alum was \u201ckicking herself<\/a> for not having a prenup.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe wanted one, but Bryan pushed the idea away and she let it go,\u201d the insider said. \u201cHe\u2019s going after her for spousal support \u2014 and he just might get it.\u201d<\/p>\n Rachel offered her ex $9,882 in spousal support a month, which was an offer Bryan refused and later requested a sum of $16,275.<\/p>\n \u201cOur current living situation is very awkward and strained. We generally do not even talk to each other and try to avoid each other. Rachel has security cameras outside our home. Only Rachel has the credentials to the security cameras, and Rachel can monitor my comings and goings,\u201d he said in court. \u201cI want to move out of our family residence as soon as possible, but maintaining our standard of living is not financially feasible at this time.\u201d<\/p>\n Rachel, on the other hand, shared that she \u201cpaid 100 precent of the mortgage, property taxes, homeowner\u2019s insurance, maintenance and repairs, utilities, and costs to care for our pets (including their food, medicine, daycare, boarding, vet bills, pet insurance) on Bryan\u2019s behalf while he refuses to vacate my home.\u201d<\/p>\n On July 13, In Touch<\/em><\/a> reported that the TV host was ordered by a judge to pay Bryan $13,257.00 in temporary spousal support. However, it was not clarified if the payment will be recurring.<\/p>\n One week later, Bryan was photographed moving his belongings out<\/a> of Rachel\u2019s Los Angeles home.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n