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Bryan Abasolo<\/b><\/a> admitted he was \u201cbeaten down\u201d when he hired a divorce coach after he and his estranged wife. <\/span>Rachel Lindsay<\/b><\/a>, called it quits.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen I first met my divorce coach last year, I was emotionally and psychologically beaten down,\u201d Bryan, 44, wrote via his Instagram Stories on Thursday, July 18. \u201cI needed an objective opinion<\/a> and guidance to make a huge decision.\u201d<\/p>\n The former Bachelorette<\/em><\/a> contestant then credited his divorce coach, Rene Garcia, \u201cfor helping me face the PR tricks and gaslighting I was warned was coming.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m thankful. If thinking of separating, find a divorce coach so you don\u2019t make a decision by reaction, but through clarity,\u201d he concluded.<\/p>\n Bryan filed for divorce from Rachel, 39, in January<\/a> after four years of marriage. While their split has been making headlines, the chiropractor did not give examples of the \u201cgaslighting\u201d he was referring to in the caption.<\/p>\n Not only did Bryan praise Rene in his post, but the divorce coach broke down the work they\u2019ve been doing together in his own Instagram post<\/a> on July 18.<\/p>\n \u201cBryan faced a tough decision as he had had enough of chasing<\/a>, as he calls it \u2018a constantly moving goal post\u2019 and he expressed \u2018tolerating disingenuous\u2019 behavior,\u201d he captioned the video post. \u201cThe fear of gaslighting, media-fed attacks on his character and bullying had been an excuse thus delaying taking action. I\u2019m happy to have been chosen to help him get clarity, be sure of his decision and know what to expect.\u201d<\/p>\n Rene then praised Bryan for staying \u201ccommitted to his personal development and the growth of his practice.\u201d<\/p>\n Fans watched Bryan and Rachel get engaged during the season 13 finale of The Bachelorette<\/em> in 2017, and they got married two years later in 2019.<\/p>\n Their divorce has gotten messy, and Rachel was recently ordered to pay Bryan $13,000 a month<\/a> in temporary spousal support following a hearing in July. Bryan claimed that he needed the amount of money in order to move out of the home they resided in during their marriage.<\/p>\n \u201cOur current living situation is very awkward and strained. We generally do not even talk to each other and try to avoid each other,\u201d Bryan said during the hearing, according to documents obtained by In Touch<\/em><\/a>. \u201cRachel has security cameras outside our home. Only Rachel has the credentials to the security cameras, and Rachel can monitor my comings and goings.\u201d<\/p>\n Before the ruling was determined, Rachel argued that she \u201cpaid 100 percent of the mortgage<\/a>, property taxes, homeowner\u2019s insurance, maintenance and repairs, utilities, and costs to care for our pets (including their food, medicine, daycare, boarding, vet bills, pet insurance) on Bryan\u2019s behalf while he refuses to vacate my home.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cExcept for paying our gardener and 50 percent of our housekeeping costs, Bryan continues to reside in my house<\/a> without contributing any funds to the carrying costs,\u201d she continued.<\/p>\n In addition to the monthly payment, Rachel was also ordered to pay $15,000 to cover her ex\u2019s lawyer fees and $5,000 for his forensic expert expenses.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n