TLC is ready to talk about sex with a group of virgins.
In the network’s latest original series — appropriately titled Virgins — four adults who have yet to experience sexual intercourse in their 30s and 40s are ready to navigate love, intimacy and self-discovery.
“My sisters actually found this show for me, and they are a big part of my life,” cast member Alex Stunz exclusively shared with Us Weekly. “They wanted me to get into a relationship. … I was like, ‘You know what? I trust you, so let’s give it a go.’ Here we are.”
Every Monday on TLC, viewers watch Alex step outside of his comfort zone and take big steps to finally go all the way — emotionally and physically.
For Rhasha Newkirk, she decided to join the show after experiencing a sexless marriage that ended in divorce.
“I was searching for help, something to get me feeling better about myself,” she told Us, “and they responded.”
As the cast continues to embrace vulnerability in hopes of obtaining confidence, connection and self-love, Rhasha, 42, and Alex, 34, are answering our burning questions about their love lives.
Keep reading to learn more and make sure to watch Virgins on TLC Mondays at 9 p.m. ET.
Why Are Alex and Rhasha Still Virgins?
Alex Stunz and Rhasha Newkirk TLC (2)
As explained on Virgins, every participant has their reasons as to why they haven’t had sex just yet.
“I’m one of 10 and I have a different outlook on relationships and life compared to other guys,” Alex said. “I want to make sure that the girl that I’m with has the same respect and care that I want my cousins to deal with or my sisters to deal with.”
Alex said he never liked one-night stands and preferred to develop an emotional relationship before things got physical. “Connect with me,” he explained. “Give me some emotion.”
As for Rhasha, her conservative childhood made her not rush into sexual relationships.
“I think my daddy set the standard,” she said before explaining how past romances affected her. “The most difficult thing for me is feeling like I’m enough. Going from my past marriage, that was a challenge for me. I’m still working on that, but I know my worth, and I know that I am enough.”
What Do Alex and Rhasha’s DMs Look Like Since the Show Started Airing?
Alex Stunz and Rhasha Newkirk US Weekly
While some reality stars experience an influx of strangers trying to grab their attention on social media, both Rhasha and Alex said they haven’t experienced anything too crazy.
“My DMs — surprise — are still dry,” Rhasha said.
Alex added, “I do have DMs from some women, and then some men congratulated me and asked for advice because they might be in the same boat. But I’ve gotten some DMs from some women. It’s crazy.”
Is There Pressure to Take the Next Steps After the Show?
Deanne, Alex, Rhasha and Sonali TLC
Since participating in the show, Alex admits that dating can be a “little tough.” At the same time, he’s proud to put himself out there and explore relationships.
“There’s so many things that go through your mind, and like I said in the show, I’m an overthinker,” Alex said. “I don’t want to overthink it, but it just happens.”
Rhasha added, “Oh, my goodness. I feel the same way. It is something that happened and I feel good about it, and I’m going to take it day by day and we’ll see.”
What Are the Biggest Misconceptions About Being a Virgin?
From Alex’s perspective, there doesn’t need to be a timetable for when people begin to experience intimacy.
“You don’t need to rush it. Take your time,” he told Us. “There’s no rule that says you have to lose [your virginity] in high school. There’s no rule that says you have to lose [it] in college. It’s when you are ready. Don’t get peer pressured by your friends at a young age.”
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What Do Alex and Rhasha Want in Their Next Relationships?
“My non-negotiables are I don’t want somebody who does not prioritize the relationship,” Rhasha declared to Us. “I don’t want someone who does not see me as a queen.”
Alex added, “I’m a social person. I’m goofy. Joke around with me, have fun with me. When it’s time to be serious, cool.”
