Gus Kenworthy is opening up about his intimate experiences in the bedroom, how he’s almost always been in a relationship, and how threesomes play a factor in his life.
The 33-year-old Olympic skier chatted with Drag Race star Katya for the latest episode of Grindr’s podcast Who’s the A**hole?
“I do like threesomes, yeah,” Gus said. “I’m like a serial monogamist. I mean, I guess not necessarily, [as] they haven’t always been monogamous. But I’ve always been in a relationship… like, literally my entire life.”
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“I was in a relationship [while] in the closet. That relationship ended shortly before I came out publicly. And then, at that same time, I started dating one of my exes. We were together for four years. It went pretty much butt-up to when I dated my next ex, for also four years. And then was single for like four months, and then I was with someone for a year. Now I’m with someone else. I’m, like, a mess,” Gus said.
Gus says he’s “had a lot of threesomes… I would say I’ve had more threesomes than I’ve had sex, like, one-on-one with people.”
“I’ve been in relationships almost my entire life, right? During some of those relationships, at the beginning, they’ve all been monogamous. But then, at the end, when they’ve been open, I’ve had sex with other people without my partner,” he added. “But most of the time that I’ve had sex with other people has been a threesome or a foursome.”
Gus said he’s had to kick people out of threesomes before.
“I feel like, if you’re all coming into it as individuals, it’s harder,” he said. “[But] if you’re coming into it in a relationship, you and your boyfriend usually have some kind of… like, you can tell. And then you try to be kind of courteous, like, ‘Hey, I think you’re really great and it’s been really fun, but I think we’re actually, maybe, not feeling it.’”
Gus suggests that you only have a threesome if everyone is into each other.
“It’s hard to know sometimes, for sure, but make sure [the third is] kind of equally into you and your partner. Because that ends up being the thing that makes threesomes not really work. Obviously, if you and your partner are together, you already have the bond… but you want to make sure you’re both into [that other person] and they’re into both of you. Then it’s like, you’re going to all have fun. But if one person’s into one person and not the other, you’re kind of doing something, like, begrudgingly. It just creates a weird dynamic,” he said.
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