Let’s be honest—it’s not easy being born in January or February. Those months are generally cold, dark, and typically reserved for hibernating. Which is why, as someone with an early February birthday, I’ve often felt more stress than excitement about my special day rolling around. A picnic in the park (or any outdoor activity, really) is generally out of the question. And worst of all, this year my big day falls on a Saturday, meaning no 9-to-5 routine to structure the day, and no default late dinner reservation. But here’s the thing: your birthday is exactly that—yours. Don’t let the pressure take that away. After some trial and error, here’s what I’ve learned can make a cold-weather birthday feel a little warmer.
Don’t Let the Weather Dictate Your Plans
Sure, a beach day might be out of the question (unless you’re up for a little travel), but remember: Most outdoor activities can be reimagined indoors. Love picnics? Host one at Jones Street Wine Tasting, where a sprawling red picnic table welcomes you and your guests for a cozy afternoon of wine, bites, and good conversation. Or, an indoor barbecue spot often gives off summer-like vibes, even when there’s a wintry mix outside. And remember that throwing a blanket on the floor of your apartment and packing it with cheese and crackers can be a party, too. (And ant-free!)
Photo by James Ransom
Revisit Your Childhood Favorites
Ever wish you could celebrate like you did as a kid? Good news—you can, and thankfully, most kids’ parties are indoors anyway. A bowling or roller skating outing with friends can bring back nostalgic joy. Escape rooms also make for a fun, interactive way to celebrate (and who knows, maybe they’ll be a little easier as an adult).
Prefer to get creative with your pals? Try a paint-and-sip class (we love Happy Medium), or check out Shiny Sparkle Labs in Brooklyn for a glass-cutting sommelier experience. Just because it’s chilly outside doesn’t mean you have to stay home.
And for the ultimate throwback, take inspiration from our editorial director, who’s upgrading a classic pizza and slumber party by booking a hotel suite for her and her friends. Age is just a number—celebrate how you want.
Make the Day About Your Favorite Things
Been wanting to get your friends to join your cold morning run club? Or spend the day sipping cocoa and watching winter wonderland movies? Your birthday is the perfect excuse. Gather your favorite people and do the things that bring you joy. Whether that’s bundling up for an outdoor escapade or hunkering down in front of the fire, or rather “Winter Crackling Fireplace” on Youtube, there’s no wrong way to celebrate.
Photo by James Ransom
Treat Yourself to a Solo Spa Celebration
Not every birthday calls for a big bash. Sometimes, the best gift is a little self-care. Swap out the typical workday for a 9-to-5 spa day and emerge refreshed. After all, it’s hard to remember the wind chill factor when you’re sweating in a sauna.
Take a Birthday Stroll with a Twist
Pick your favorite neighborhood and turn your birthday into a casual bar hop or coffee crawl. With a drink in hand and your favorite people by your side, even a cold February day can feel warm and lively.
Winter birthdays might not come with sunshine and rooftop parties, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be just as fun. However you choose to celebrate, make sure it feels right for you—because at the end of the day, your birthday should be exactly what you want it to be.
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What is your favorite winter birthday activity?
